How To Be A Human Lie Detector

He may casually tell you something that deserves more attention. • Lots of Lies. If they lie about one thing, everything they say is questionable. • Wild, Wild, Wild.

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Find Out Who Is Lying To You •

In an ideal society there would be no need for lies.

But we live in a world of deception.

And whether you want to play or not, you’re in the game.

The question is, do you want to win?

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Once you realize that you’re being lied to, should you confront the liar right away? Probably not.

Note the suspicion in your mind and continue to gather information so the conversation doesn’t become difficult.

Wait until you have all the evidence and then decide how you can best use the insight to your advantage.

Signs of Deception Body Language • The Language of the Eyes The person will make little or no eye contact with you. • The Body Never Lies They will use limited, stiff arm and hand movements. • The Unconscious Cover-up Their hand may go up to their face, throat or mouth. • The Partial Shrug Trying to appear casual and relaxed, they may shrug a little.

Signs of Deception Emotional States • Timing is Everything The timing is off between gestures and words. • Contradiction and Consistency The head moves mechanically. Gestures don’t match words. • Emotion Commotion The emotion is delayed, stays longer or fades out abruptly. • Expression Zone Expressions limited to the mouth rather than the whole face.

Signs of Deception Interpersonal Interactions • Offense or Defense When wrongfully accused, a guilty person gets defensive. • Head Shift Reluctant to face accuser, turning head or shifting body away. • Liar’s Posture Liars will probably slouch, possibly with folded arms. • Headed For The Exit Moving away from accuser, possibly in the direction of the door.

Signs of Deception Actual Verbal Content • Using Your Words To Make His Point. • The Harder They Try, The More Guilty They Seem.

• The Good Old Freudian Slip. • Above That Sort Of Thing. • Silence Is Golden. • An Implied Answer Is No Answer.

Signs of Deception How Something Is Said • Speedy Gonzales Deceitful responses take longer to think up. • Over Compensating Watch out for reactions out of proportion to the question. • The Mumbler Words may be garbled or spoken softly, grammar may be off. • Statements Sound Like Questions Voice, head and eyes lift at the end of their statement.

Signs of Deception Psychological Profile • What’s On Their Mind Beware of those always asking you if you believe them. • Where Are They Concentrating Look at whether their focus is: internal or external. • Everything Went Perfectly Liars often leaves out the negative aspects of the story. • Is There Anything Else You Want To Know Liars willingly answers questions but asks none of their own.

Signs of Deception General Indications of Lying • Whew, I’m Glad That’s Over The guilty want the subject changed. • How Dare You Accuse Me While he is being accused the liar will remain fairly expressionless.

• Never Believe Anyone Who Says… “To tell you the truth,” “To be perfectly honest,” “Would I lie to you?”

• Answer Down Pat Giving precise detail to an event occurring two months ago.

Signs of Deception General Indications of Lying • Can You Repeat the Question, Please? Answering your question with a question. “Where did you hear that?”

• Sleight of Mouth What they are saying sounds implausible or impossible. • Tricky Dicky Offers a preamble starting with “I don’t want you to think that…”

• Don’t Be Ridiculous Liars use humor or sarcasm, rather than responding seriously.

Signs of Deception General Indications of Lying • We’re Out Of Stock He offers you a “better” alternative to your request. • The Number Zone All of his facts relating to numbers are the same or similar. • Nervous Nellie There is evidence of involuntary responses that are anxiety based. • Oh So Clever He uses an obvious fact to support a dubious action.

Signs of Deception General Indications of Lying • The Moral Assumption Exclaims displeasure at someone else so you won’t suspect him.

• Oh By The Way He may casually tell you something that deserves more attention.

• Lots of Lies If they lie about one thing, everything they say is questionable.

• Wild, Wild, Wild His story is so wild that you almost don’t believe it, but you do.

How To Be A Human Lie Detector •

Review of observation techniques so far

Phase One – Indirect Questioning Attack Sequences 1. Ask a question that does not accuse the person of anything but alludes to the person’s possible behavior or guilt Examples: “Anything interesting happen last night? “Heard any good gossip recently?”

2. Introduce a scenario similar to what you suspect is going on, using specifics “I’m wondering if you could help me with something…” “I’d like to get your advice on something…”

How To Be A Human Lie Detector 3. Introduce a scenario similar to what you suspect is going on, using general terms Examples: “Isn’t it amazing how someone can cheat on a test…” “It’s amazing all the backstabbing that goes on…” “It’s amazing how someone can be unfaithful...”

A change in subject is highly indicative of guilt. However, if he finds your question interesting and he’s innocent, he might begin a conversation about it since he’s unafraid to discuss the subject.

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Phase Two – Direct and More Questioning Sequences

Direct Questioning

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Give no advance warning. Never reveal what you know first. Build rapport by matching posture, movement, speech, words. Square off so that you’re facing each other. Never interrupt. Be silent. At the end of his answer respond with “Really?” “Is there anything you want to get off your chest?”

How To Be A Human Lie Detector Lead and Confine

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Ask a leading question. Reverse course: “You’ve got to be kidding!” “This is not going to work.”

Time Line Distortion

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“Oh. I knew right from the start what was going on.” It’s no big deal. “You had to know I knew…” I appreciate what you’ve done. “I know that you were just going along with it because you were scared.... It’s really okay. “

How To Be A Human Lie Detector Direct Assumption – A Shot In The Dark

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Be somewhat curt and standoffish... I’m hurt. “I’ve just found something out and I’m really hurt/ shocked/surprised!” Hold your ground. “I think we both know what I’m talking about.. We need to clear the air…”


“I’m sure it will come to you” and “The longer I wait, the madder I get.”


Apply social pressure. “We were all talking about it. Everybody knows.”

How To Be A Human Lie Detector The Missing Link

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List facts. Tell her something that you know to be true. State your assumption. “I know all about it…” The magic phrase. “You know what, I’m too upset to talk about this now.”

Who, Me??

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Setting the scene. You suspect that your ex-girlfriend broke into your house. Inform her without accusing. Introduce evidence to be rebutted. Continue with more facts that they can try to explain away.

How To Be A Human Lie Detector Outrageous Accusations

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Accuse him of everything. Then introduce the one thing you feel he really has done. Step in closer. This increases anxiety in the guilty person.

Is There a Reason?

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Introduce a fact. “Is there a reason your car wasn’t in the driveway?” One more shot. “Oh, that’s odd, I called your house and I got your answering machine / voicemail.” Staring makes someone who is on the defensive feel closed in. Lock eyes with her and ask again.

How To Be A Human Lie Detector Third-Party Confirmation

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Accuse outright by having a friend or co-worker make the accusation for you. “Are you kidding? It’s common knowledge, but I think I know how I can smooth it over…” Last call. “Okay. But are you sure?”

Reverse Psychology Setting the scene. “I’m looking for someone to be in charge of a new internal theft program for the entire company.” The irony is… “We’re looking for someone who knows how it’s done.” I told them so. “You know, I told them that you would be too afraid to have an open discussion…”

How To Be A Human Lie Detector 11. 1. 2.

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Condemnation or Concern The key is not to accuse, just to inform. “I’m just letting you know.” Example: A customer brings back a non-working printer for an exchange, claiming that he bought it just a few days before. You find that a necessary, expensive, and easily removable component of the machine is missing. Response 1. “I didn’t take it out. That’s how it was when I bought it.” (Defensive - Guilty) Response 2. “What? You sold me a printer that has a missing part? I wasted two hours trying to get that thing to work.” (Offensive - Innocent)

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Phase Three – How To Get The Truth Out Of Your Suspect Liars need an incentive to confess. The payoff for confessing needs to be immediate, clear, specific, and compelling – visual, auditory, and kinesthetic. Let him experience fully the pleasure of being honest and the pain of continuing the lie. Involve as many of the senses as you can. Create images for the person to see, sounds for him to hear, and sensations that he can almost feel.

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If You Think That’s Bad, Wait Until You Hear What I Did… “The reason I’m asking you these questions is that I’ve done some things that I’m not too proud of, either. I can understand why you might have…” He will ask you to get more specific about your actions. But insist that he tell you first. Hold out and he’ll come clean.

How To Be A Human Lie Detector It Was An Accident, Really! 1. Make him feel that it would be a good thing to have you know exactly what happened. 2. He did something wrong, it’s true, but that is no longer your concern. You shift the focus of your concern to his intentions, not his actions. It’s not what he’s done, but why he’s done it. 3. The Boomerang 1. Tell him that he did something good, not bad. He’s completely thrown off by this. 2. For example, you want to see if your interviewee has lied on her resume. 2.

How To Be A Human Lie Detector Truth or Consequences

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Force your antagonist to work with you or you both end up with nothing. “I’d rather hear it from you first. I can live with what you did and what happened, but not with your lying to me about it. If you don’t tell me now, then it’s over.”

Speak Now or Forever Hold Your Peace

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Let him know that (a) this is his last chance he’ll have for explaining himself, and (b) you can get what you need from someone else. “I want to hear it from you now. After tomorrow, anything you say won’t make a difference to me.”

How To Be A Human Lie Detector Be A Friend 1. You convey to him what happened or what he did was a good thing insofar as it allows you and he to establish an even better relationship 2. “I understand why you would have done that. What can I do to help so that it doesn’t happen again?” 7. I Hate To Do This, But You Leave Me No Choice 6.

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You let him become aware that there are going to be greater ramifications and repercussions than just lying to you. You rely on his imagination to set the terms of the damage that you can inflict.

How To Be A Human Lie Detector I Guess You’re Not Allowed

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Never underestimate the power of appealing to a person’s ego. “I think I know what it is – you’re not allowed to tell me. Somebody else is pulling the strings.”

Higher Authority

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Anything he’s lied about can be cleared up right now. However, if anyone else finds out about it later, it’s too late. You’re not yelling or demanding answers. You’re on her side, and you’re going to work together to smooth things over.

How To Be A Human Lie Detector 10. 1.

The Great Unknown The severity of the penalty can be manipulated in two major ways to make it appear much more severe - time and impact: • Time: Give no indication of when the axe will drop, when the penalty will occur. When things happen unexpectedly, the degree of anguish is more potent. • Impact: Convey that his entire life will be disrupted and drastically altered for the worse. He needs to see that this event is not isolated and will instead have a ripple effect.

How To Be A Human Lie Detector I Couldn’t Care Less 1. Nobody wants to be thought of as unimportant, or feel that his ideas and thinking is irrelevant. 2. Your apathy toward the situation will unnerve him immensely. 3. He will begin to crave recognition and acceptance. He needs to know you care what happens, and if talking about his misdeeds is the only way he can find out, he will. 4. “I know and I just don’t care.” 5. “I’ve got other things to think about. Maybe we’ll talk some other time.” 6. “You do what you have to do, that’s fine with me.”


Bonus: Four Keywords For Directing The Flow Of Information In A Conversation You can steer a conversation in any direction that you choose by using the following keywords after someone’s statement: 1. Meaning? … Saying this word after he speaks directs his thinking and the conversation toward the larger picture, giving you a better look at his overall position. He will offer the reason for the position. 2. And? … This response gives you more lateral information. You’ll be able to gather additional facts. 3. So? … This response makes him get more specific, giving you the details of his position. 4. Now what? … This response makes him translate his position into a specific action. He will proceed to tell you exactly what he means and how it applies to you.

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