WHY YOU FAIL
FAIL
WHY YOU
by Jb Glossinger
Why you fail the PoWer of conditioninG
3
the system
5
the ansWers
7
the solution
11
THE POWER OF CONDITIONING In order to understand why we fail, we must first understand the power of conditioning. Conditioning results when different stimuli – things we see, hear, touch, feel and smell – enter our minds on a consistent basis and begin to affect our thoughts and actions. Think of it this way. When we do something over and over again or see something over and over again, the neural pathways in our brains become like a ski slope where repeated downhill runs have created deeper and deeper ruts. The same thing happens to our minds when we’re conditioned over the course of our lives.
friends
Friends and peers are another source of conditioning. There’s an old saying that I’ve heard often, but it’s still true: “People want you to be successful, just not more successful than they are.” So if your friends and peers don’t really want you to be successful, then they are conditioning you by holding you back from living the life of your dreams.
teachers
We have to also understand that the majority of us have been conditioned to fail. We’ve been conditioned to exist in a system from which we often feel unable to escape. What are the main sources of conditioning?
Teachers can condition you, especially when you’re young and impressionable. Also, we’re influenced by the conquerors of the world. History is written by the conquerors, not the losers. People with agendas fill our minds, because they’ve been conquering other people for years. This conditioning tends to not be as positive as it should be, and it leads you into their system instead of freedom.
Parents
tv/radio
One could be your parents. When you’re young, you build that first mountain of mental ski slopes when your parents and their beliefs start to condition you. For example, if your parents never had tremendous amounts of success because of their own conditioning, then chances are they passed that conditioning on to you.
Television and radio are another big source of conditioning. If you watch a lot of TV and listen to the radio often, as most people do, then you’re at the mercy of advertisers, who have become awesome at understanding the mind of the consumer.
...the majority of us have been conditioned to fail... to exist in a system from which we often feel unable to escape
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billboards Even billboards, or any kind of advertising we process subconsciously, can
have a huge impact. Our brains can take in so much information, more than we can even imagine. The brain is more powerful than the most powerful super computer, so even when we’re just driving down the road, it’s taking in a lot of information.
advertising Advertising can be a good thing or a bad thing. Normally it’s a bad thing,
because advertisers know how to make you feel insecure about your appearance or make you feel unsuccessful because you don’t drive a certain car or wear a certain brand. And as psychology plays a larger role in marketing, we become over-conditioned, unable to find peace inside our hearts when we don’t achieve success.
religion
Religion is another source of conditioning. Believe it or not, religion can be a spiritual source of enlightenment and peace, but it can also create ski slopes in your mind and beliefs that don’t serve you. You need to be aware of that possibility and take a step back to see if those beliefs are serving you.
work Your work environment is another place where you get conditioning. More than likely,
you’re in a position of trading dollars for hours, or maybe you’re an entrepreneur. In either case, you’re being conditioned by others in your work environment.
books Books have the potential to either move you forward or hold you back. It’s like the
old computer analogy “Garbage in, garbage out.” And of course, there’s the Internet. Whether you’re on Facebook, Twitter or Google News, you’re being conditioned, and it’s taking you either forward or backward. Regardless of the source of conditioning, you’re creating beliefs and ski slopes in your mind, and more than likely, you’re being conditioned to fail, because the sources of conditioning want to keep you within the framework of their system.
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WHY WE FAIL
The System So let’s talk about this system. The system is what we live in, it’s what we do day-to-day, it’s the economic machine. However, the system is not inherently evil; it’s just a system. It’s neither good nor bad. Actually, it works well and serves a purpose, giving us a place to go to create income and wealth and to live our lives. It’s the material manifest in which we live. The problem is that you’re either a pawn on the board or you’re the one running the board, moving the pieces around. The people who are moving the pieces don’t want you moving the pieces with them. If there are too many people moving the pieces, the machines breaks. The cogs in the wheel are what make the machine work. So not everybody is privy to this information. It’s actually very esoteric, because what I’m doing here is giving you the awareness of the system so you can take a step back from it, really see where you are and either move out of the system or arm yourself with knowledge and start to work within the framework of the system.
If you’re lucky enough to have parents that created wealth and had the ability to teach you, that’s great. But most schools don’t want kids to learn this, because they want them to stay within the system. They don’t want others to be free, because as soon as someone else creates independent wealth, that person now has control, the ability to do the things he or she wants to do. Think about this. Does it make sense? Also, why don’t schools teach the importance of attitude, belief and passion, and really believing in yourself? Studies have shown that our self-esteem is at its highest when we enter kindergarten. Until that point, we’ve only been around our parents, who tell us we can accomplish anything. So we go into kindergarten thinking that life is going to be amazing.
Have you ever wondered why schools don’t teach kids about creating wealth? They don’t teach kids about concepts such as the stock market or real estate investing or compounding interesting. MorningCoach.com
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Then, research shows, by the time we graduate from high school, our selfesteem has dissolved, that we have no belief in ourselves and that we don’t believe in attitude and passion, which moves us back and programs us to fail. So instead of teaching us about wealth, the importance of attitude and the importance of belief and passion, our schools are putting us in a position to fail. We’re failing, because people are leaving the school system scared to death. They’ve stopped dreaming, stopped believing, and that hurts all of us, because instead of getting greatness out of each individual, we get mediocrity. What this web event is about is breaking you out of this failure mentality, taking you to a higher awareness and allowing you to live your dreams. So conditioning has stolen your passion, your dreams, your very self. But now, it’s time to break free. It’s time to break free and start to live your life again. It’s time to understand the depth of what I’m discussing, which will allow you to live your dreams.
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What are the ansWers? turn off the neWs
First, you have to change your conditioning as soon as possible. That means turn off the news. The news does nothing for you. It doesn’t bring you positive energy, and it doesn’t enlighten you. A lot of people say, “But JB, I need the news because I trade in the stock market. I need to know what’s going on.” In our Information Age, you’re always going to know what’s going on. You don’t need to get into the drama that the news plants in your mind. It conditions you into a negative state and creates failure. In order to move to the next level, you’ve got to start thinking differently and doing things differently. And you do that by first changing your conditioning. So turn off the news.
become more aWare
You also need to become more aware, which you’re doing just by reading this. You’re starting to become aware of the things that are around you, and you’re starting to think, “Maybe I am in a system, and maybe my brain is being conditioned. How do I break free of that?” You first become aware of it. Then you start to let new ideas, thoughts and information enter your mind. This is critical. Just imagine those ski slopes. They’re ruts. They’ve been getting deeper and deeper, and those old ways of thinking, those old beliefs—the ones that have gotten you where you are today—have solidified there.
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create neW beliefs We need to create some new beliefs. We need
to jump on some new ski slopes, bring in some new ideas and thoughts, and create some new tracks in your mind. We do that by changing your conditioning. I want you to take a moment to really look at your beliefs. What has gotten you to this point? Do you believe that money doesn’t grow on trees? Do you believe that being poor is more spiritual than being wealthy? Do you believe that you’re a day late and a dollar short? Do you believe that you have to work hard to generate wealth? Do your beliefs serve you? Are they taking you where you want to go, or are they holding you back? Where do your beliefs come from? Are they from your parents? Are they from your educators? What type of life are those people living? Can you dig in and see what they’re really doing? Really look at the depth of where those beliefs come from and ask yourself if you want to live the same kind of life as those people.
learn about Wealth
The other thing I want you to do is to start to learn about wealth. It’s time. Start with prosperity consciousness and move away from a mental state of scarcity. If you don’t understand that, then get that understanding, because that’s the fundamental basis in starting to create wealth. You also have to understand assets and wealth vehicles. If you feel that you don’t deserve wealth, then you’ve got to start learning these things right now, because you need to start building that positive belief inside. You need to think like a chess master instead of the pawn on the board. It’s time to break free.
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GET ALIGNED You also need to get into alignment,
understanding the relationship between your mission (the big picture of what you’re trying to do in life), your values (the things that are really important to you) and your goals. Do your goals align with your values and mission? What we find is that most people have no such alignment or have never even done the work to determine what their mission, values and goals are.
connect with community
You also need to be around the right people – people who get it. When you’re around the wrong people, as many of us are, you start to get their conditioning. And they’re not going to support you, because they don’t want you to be successful. You need to surround yourself with dreamers and believers. Life is too short not to. It’s great to be alive, and it’s great to know that every day can change everything. You’re hearing this now for a reason, and you never know what day you’re going to wake up and an idea or person will come into your life and change everything for the better. When you live that way, with that feeling of serendipity, it’s great to get up in the morning. You also need to get rid of the energy vampires and the negative Nellies in your life, those people who are negative and energy-draining. They aren’t serving you, and they’re not helping you move forward.
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The Solution
The solution to all of this is very simple: Join MorningCoach.com. Why? Because you get consistent information to change your conditioning, every morning. That’s where the power is. Start your day with that 15 minutes, and you’ll begin thinking differently. It’s going to start creating different ski slopes in your mind. But be careful. Because when you start on a new ski slope of belief, power and dreams, somebody is going to try to knock you back to that old ski slope. So you need this daily drip of positivity. You need this coaching, you need this energy so that you can build your beliefs back, again creating those new ski slopes of dreams, energy, positivity, belief, strength and posture that you truly can have. You need to learn about wealth in a positive mindset, which we talk about consistently on MorningCoach.com. We need to get you to the point where you’re building wealth, so that you can contribute to society and become that chess master who moves the pawns on the board instead of being the pawn. You also need to surround yourself with amazing people. I think this is one of the most important aspects of MorningCoach.com. Not only are you getting energy, and not only are you getting new conditioning, but you’re also surrounding yourself with amazing people who get it. This is why I put MorningCoach.com together in the first place – because I was tired of being surrounded with turkeys. To soar with eagles, you’ve got to be around eagles. The MorningCoach.com community is full of eagles. It’s full of people like you who understand good energy and the need to have other supportive people around them. We know that life is not always perfect, that the pastures are not always green and that there are going to be ups and downs. And when we’re experiencing the downs, we need people to support us. And guess what. When we’re experiencing the ups, we need to support others. That’s what the MorningCoach. com community is about, and that’s why it’s so huge. I love it, and you need to join it right now. You need to become a part of it, because it’s going to change your life. There are thousands of CoachCasts on MorningCoach.com that cover many different topics. New CoachCasts are released each Monday through Friday to give you new, consistent information. So it’s time to manifest freedom. It’s time to join MorningCoach.com. You need to be a part of that community. We need your blessing, your energy and your positivity, and you need us. You need to change your mindset and conditioning. Do it today. Don’t hesitate. Let’s rock and roll, and let’s live an amazing life.
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WHY YOU
by Jb Glossinger
Why you fail the PoWer of conditioninG
3
the system
5
the ansWers
7
the solution
11
THE POWER OF CONDITIONING In order to understand why we fail, we must first understand the power of conditioning. Conditioning results when different stimuli – things we see, hear, touch, feel and smell – enter our minds on a consistent basis and begin to affect our thoughts and actions. Think of it this way. When we do something over and over again or see something over and over again, the neural pathways in our brains become like a ski slope where repeated downhill runs have created deeper and deeper ruts. The same thing happens to our minds when we’re conditioned over the course of our lives.
friends
Friends and peers are another source of conditioning. There’s an old saying that I’ve heard often, but it’s still true: “People want you to be successful, just not more successful than they are.” So if your friends and peers don’t really want you to be successful, then they are conditioning you by holding you back from living the life of your dreams.
teachers
We have to also understand that the majority of us have been conditioned to fail. We’ve been conditioned to exist in a system from which we often feel unable to escape. What are the main sources of conditioning?
Teachers can condition you, especially when you’re young and impressionable. Also, we’re influenced by the conquerors of the world. History is written by the conquerors, not the losers. People with agendas fill our minds, because they’ve been conquering other people for years. This conditioning tends to not be as positive as it should be, and it leads you into their system instead of freedom.
Parents
tv/radio
One could be your parents. When you’re young, you build that first mountain of mental ski slopes when your parents and their beliefs start to condition you. For example, if your parents never had tremendous amounts of success because of their own conditioning, then chances are they passed that conditioning on to you.
Television and radio are another big source of conditioning. If you watch a lot of TV and listen to the radio often, as most people do, then you’re at the mercy of advertisers, who have become awesome at understanding the mind of the consumer.
...the majority of us have been conditioned to fail... to exist in a system from which we often feel unable to escape
MorningCoach.com
3
billboards Even billboards, or any kind of advertising we process subconsciously, can
have a huge impact. Our brains can take in so much information, more than we can even imagine. The brain is more powerful than the most powerful super computer, so even when we’re just driving down the road, it’s taking in a lot of information.
advertising Advertising can be a good thing or a bad thing. Normally it’s a bad thing,
because advertisers know how to make you feel insecure about your appearance or make you feel unsuccessful because you don’t drive a certain car or wear a certain brand. And as psychology plays a larger role in marketing, we become over-conditioned, unable to find peace inside our hearts when we don’t achieve success.
religion
Religion is another source of conditioning. Believe it or not, religion can be a spiritual source of enlightenment and peace, but it can also create ski slopes in your mind and beliefs that don’t serve you. You need to be aware of that possibility and take a step back to see if those beliefs are serving you.
work Your work environment is another place where you get conditioning. More than likely,
you’re in a position of trading dollars for hours, or maybe you’re an entrepreneur. In either case, you’re being conditioned by others in your work environment.
books Books have the potential to either move you forward or hold you back. It’s like the
old computer analogy “Garbage in, garbage out.” And of course, there’s the Internet. Whether you’re on Facebook, Twitter or Google News, you’re being conditioned, and it’s taking you either forward or backward. Regardless of the source of conditioning, you’re creating beliefs and ski slopes in your mind, and more than likely, you’re being conditioned to fail, because the sources of conditioning want to keep you within the framework of their system.
4
WHY WE FAIL
The System So let’s talk about this system. The system is what we live in, it’s what we do day-to-day, it’s the economic machine. However, the system is not inherently evil; it’s just a system. It’s neither good nor bad. Actually, it works well and serves a purpose, giving us a place to go to create income and wealth and to live our lives. It’s the material manifest in which we live. The problem is that you’re either a pawn on the board or you’re the one running the board, moving the pieces around. The people who are moving the pieces don’t want you moving the pieces with them. If there are too many people moving the pieces, the machines breaks. The cogs in the wheel are what make the machine work. So not everybody is privy to this information. It’s actually very esoteric, because what I’m doing here is giving you the awareness of the system so you can take a step back from it, really see where you are and either move out of the system or arm yourself with knowledge and start to work within the framework of the system.
If you’re lucky enough to have parents that created wealth and had the ability to teach you, that’s great. But most schools don’t want kids to learn this, because they want them to stay within the system. They don’t want others to be free, because as soon as someone else creates independent wealth, that person now has control, the ability to do the things he or she wants to do. Think about this. Does it make sense? Also, why don’t schools teach the importance of attitude, belief and passion, and really believing in yourself? Studies have shown that our self-esteem is at its highest when we enter kindergarten. Until that point, we’ve only been around our parents, who tell us we can accomplish anything. So we go into kindergarten thinking that life is going to be amazing.
Have you ever wondered why schools don’t teach kids about creating wealth? They don’t teach kids about concepts such as the stock market or real estate investing or compounding interesting. MorningCoach.com
5
Then, research shows, by the time we graduate from high school, our selfesteem has dissolved, that we have no belief in ourselves and that we don’t believe in attitude and passion, which moves us back and programs us to fail. So instead of teaching us about wealth, the importance of attitude and the importance of belief and passion, our schools are putting us in a position to fail. We’re failing, because people are leaving the school system scared to death. They’ve stopped dreaming, stopped believing, and that hurts all of us, because instead of getting greatness out of each individual, we get mediocrity. What this web event is about is breaking you out of this failure mentality, taking you to a higher awareness and allowing you to live your dreams. So conditioning has stolen your passion, your dreams, your very self. But now, it’s time to break free. It’s time to break free and start to live your life again. It’s time to understand the depth of what I’m discussing, which will allow you to live your dreams.
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Why We fail
What are the ansWers? turn off the neWs
First, you have to change your conditioning as soon as possible. That means turn off the news. The news does nothing for you. It doesn’t bring you positive energy, and it doesn’t enlighten you. A lot of people say, “But JB, I need the news because I trade in the stock market. I need to know what’s going on.” In our Information Age, you’re always going to know what’s going on. You don’t need to get into the drama that the news plants in your mind. It conditions you into a negative state and creates failure. In order to move to the next level, you’ve got to start thinking differently and doing things differently. And you do that by first changing your conditioning. So turn off the news.
become more aWare
You also need to become more aware, which you’re doing just by reading this. You’re starting to become aware of the things that are around you, and you’re starting to think, “Maybe I am in a system, and maybe my brain is being conditioned. How do I break free of that?” You first become aware of it. Then you start to let new ideas, thoughts and information enter your mind. This is critical. Just imagine those ski slopes. They’re ruts. They’ve been getting deeper and deeper, and those old ways of thinking, those old beliefs—the ones that have gotten you where you are today—have solidified there.
morninGcoach.com
7
create neW beliefs We need to create some new beliefs. We need
to jump on some new ski slopes, bring in some new ideas and thoughts, and create some new tracks in your mind. We do that by changing your conditioning. I want you to take a moment to really look at your beliefs. What has gotten you to this point? Do you believe that money doesn’t grow on trees? Do you believe that being poor is more spiritual than being wealthy? Do you believe that you’re a day late and a dollar short? Do you believe that you have to work hard to generate wealth? Do your beliefs serve you? Are they taking you where you want to go, or are they holding you back? Where do your beliefs come from? Are they from your parents? Are they from your educators? What type of life are those people living? Can you dig in and see what they’re really doing? Really look at the depth of where those beliefs come from and ask yourself if you want to live the same kind of life as those people.
learn about Wealth
The other thing I want you to do is to start to learn about wealth. It’s time. Start with prosperity consciousness and move away from a mental state of scarcity. If you don’t understand that, then get that understanding, because that’s the fundamental basis in starting to create wealth. You also have to understand assets and wealth vehicles. If you feel that you don’t deserve wealth, then you’ve got to start learning these things right now, because you need to start building that positive belief inside. You need to think like a chess master instead of the pawn on the board. It’s time to break free.
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Why We fail
GET ALIGNED You also need to get into alignment,
understanding the relationship between your mission (the big picture of what you’re trying to do in life), your values (the things that are really important to you) and your goals. Do your goals align with your values and mission? What we find is that most people have no such alignment or have never even done the work to determine what their mission, values and goals are.
connect with community
You also need to be around the right people – people who get it. When you’re around the wrong people, as many of us are, you start to get their conditioning. And they’re not going to support you, because they don’t want you to be successful. You need to surround yourself with dreamers and believers. Life is too short not to. It’s great to be alive, and it’s great to know that every day can change everything. You’re hearing this now for a reason, and you never know what day you’re going to wake up and an idea or person will come into your life and change everything for the better. When you live that way, with that feeling of serendipity, it’s great to get up in the morning. You also need to get rid of the energy vampires and the negative Nellies in your life, those people who are negative and energy-draining. They aren’t serving you, and they’re not helping you move forward.
MorningCoach.com
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The Solution
The solution to all of this is very simple: Join MorningCoach.com. Why? Because you get consistent information to change your conditioning, every morning. That’s where the power is. Start your day with that 15 minutes, and you’ll begin thinking differently. It’s going to start creating different ski slopes in your mind. But be careful. Because when you start on a new ski slope of belief, power and dreams, somebody is going to try to knock you back to that old ski slope. So you need this daily drip of positivity. You need this coaching, you need this energy so that you can build your beliefs back, again creating those new ski slopes of dreams, energy, positivity, belief, strength and posture that you truly can have. You need to learn about wealth in a positive mindset, which we talk about consistently on MorningCoach.com. We need to get you to the point where you’re building wealth, so that you can contribute to society and become that chess master who moves the pawns on the board instead of being the pawn. You also need to surround yourself with amazing people. I think this is one of the most important aspects of MorningCoach.com. Not only are you getting energy, and not only are you getting new conditioning, but you’re also surrounding yourself with amazing people who get it. This is why I put MorningCoach.com together in the first place – because I was tired of being surrounded with turkeys. To soar with eagles, you’ve got to be around eagles. The MorningCoach.com community is full of eagles. It’s full of people like you who understand good energy and the need to have other supportive people around them. We know that life is not always perfect, that the pastures are not always green and that there are going to be ups and downs. And when we’re experiencing the downs, we need people to support us. And guess what. When we’re experiencing the ups, we need to support others. That’s what the MorningCoach. com community is about, and that’s why it’s so huge. I love it, and you need to join it right now. You need to become a part of it, because it’s going to change your life. There are thousands of CoachCasts on MorningCoach.com that cover many different topics. New CoachCasts are released each Monday through Friday to give you new, consistent information. So it’s time to manifest freedom. It’s time to join MorningCoach.com. You need to be a part of that community. We need your blessing, your energy and your positivity, and you need us. You need to change your mindset and conditioning. Do it today. Don’t hesitate. Let’s rock and roll, and let’s live an amazing life.
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