04 introduction to the 4 vibes
Introduction To The Four "Vibes": What They Are And How They Are Important
For the smart guy who refuses to resort to bullying, begging, buying, bs or booze, in his pursuit of happiness. Copyright © 1988-2011, Ghita Services, Inc. All Rights Reserved. The information within this study guide may not be duplicated without written permission from the author.
Disclaimer This document may contain viewpoints that may be considered controversial by certain audiences. It is intended as a powerful guide for self-respecting, intelligent men who are looking to avoid from "real-hateshun-ships by default" and instead claim the happiness that they deserve. I, Ross Jeffries, Ghita Services., Inc, and/or Seduction.com (or any of our other websites or entities) cannot and will not be held responsible in any way for your actions, and will not be held liable for any and all claims from you or any other third party. You alone are responsible for your decisions and actions, even if they have an impact on others. This information is meant for "entertainment" purposes only. While this document contains information, tips, tools, and strategies that are recommended by us and, in many cases, have succeeded when applied by others, this product and its contents carry no warranty or guarantee (either explicit or implied) that the purchaser or reader will achieve success with women, or in any other endeavor for which they may be used.
The essence of this module can be summed up quite simply: women respond to emotional variety. When you can provide women with different forms of emotional stimulation, the attraction and desire they experience for you will be intense and their need to figure it out will make it even more intense. I identify 4 basic vibes. Vibe 1: Dominant To me, the dominant vibe is about being a leader, and especially being in the lead emotionally. This means that you can see where your woman is at, without having to take on her emotions or her emotional reality for yourself. This is a key skill set and it’s heavily dependent on the skill at feel practice you learned in the Showing Up Attractive Course (and one of the major reasons why I have put these two courses together). Many so called “nice guys” are really suffering from no –choice around empathy. They are so in tune with women that women become their emotional guides and sign posts and mentors. Big mistake. Dominant also includes a belief: “I’m not your girlfriend with a penis. I’m a guy. I could fuck you at anytime and I’ll also do my best to make sure you are safe.” (Ultimately please understand that all adults are fundamentally responsible for their own sense of safety. You can create the conditions for a woman to feel safe but ultimately she has to get there herself). Vibe 2: Showing Authority In/Understanding Of Her World As I have said before, people won’t usually accept that you are an authority on where they should go unless they first perceive you are 1 Introduction To The Four "Vibes": What They Are And How They Are Important Study Guide Included With Speed Seduction® "Showing Up Attractive" Course 1988-2011, Ghita Services, Inc. All Rights Reserved. www.seduction.com
an expert/authority on where they currently are. There are many different levels at which you can demonstrate authority in a woman’s world, but when I say “authority” I don’t mean the kind that comes from a gun or a badge. Vibe 3: Being Playful And Fun This simply means you can enjoy yourself on many levels and create fun out of thin air. It means being able to be playful and childlike and to bring out that side of her Vibe 4: Being Authentic This comes down to expressing what ever felt sense is going on for you in the moment, without “losing it” on one extreme or “bottling it up” on the author. It doesn’t mean being wimpy or clingy. It means that if you are angry you say, “Hey, that really pissed me off. Never do that again.” If you look at her and genuinely think, “Goddamn what a beautiful woman” then express it (ONCE!) and then get off of it. The belief behind this vibe is: “Speaking my truth is more important to me than getting into your pants”. Shows standards and conveys you have options and choices. The practice of installing the 4 vibes is explained in the Drills/Practices section of this course.
2 Introduction To The Four "Vibes": What They Are And How They Are Important Study Guide Included With Speed Seduction® "Showing Up Attractive" Course 1988-2011, Ghita Services, Inc. All Rights Reserved. www.seduction.com
For the smart guy who refuses to resort to bullying, begging, buying, bs or booze, in his pursuit of happiness. Copyright © 1988-2011, Ghita Services, Inc. All Rights Reserved. The information within this study guide may not be duplicated without written permission from the author.
Disclaimer This document may contain viewpoints that may be considered controversial by certain audiences. It is intended as a powerful guide for self-respecting, intelligent men who are looking to avoid from "real-hateshun-ships by default" and instead claim the happiness that they deserve. I, Ross Jeffries, Ghita Services., Inc, and/or Seduction.com (or any of our other websites or entities) cannot and will not be held responsible in any way for your actions, and will not be held liable for any and all claims from you or any other third party. You alone are responsible for your decisions and actions, even if they have an impact on others. This information is meant for "entertainment" purposes only. While this document contains information, tips, tools, and strategies that are recommended by us and, in many cases, have succeeded when applied by others, this product and its contents carry no warranty or guarantee (either explicit or implied) that the purchaser or reader will achieve success with women, or in any other endeavor for which they may be used.
The essence of this module can be summed up quite simply: women respond to emotional variety. When you can provide women with different forms of emotional stimulation, the attraction and desire they experience for you will be intense and their need to figure it out will make it even more intense. I identify 4 basic vibes. Vibe 1: Dominant To me, the dominant vibe is about being a leader, and especially being in the lead emotionally. This means that you can see where your woman is at, without having to take on her emotions or her emotional reality for yourself. This is a key skill set and it’s heavily dependent on the skill at feel practice you learned in the Showing Up Attractive Course (and one of the major reasons why I have put these two courses together). Many so called “nice guys” are really suffering from no –choice around empathy. They are so in tune with women that women become their emotional guides and sign posts and mentors. Big mistake. Dominant also includes a belief: “I’m not your girlfriend with a penis. I’m a guy. I could fuck you at anytime and I’ll also do my best to make sure you are safe.” (Ultimately please understand that all adults are fundamentally responsible for their own sense of safety. You can create the conditions for a woman to feel safe but ultimately she has to get there herself). Vibe 2: Showing Authority In/Understanding Of Her World As I have said before, people won’t usually accept that you are an authority on where they should go unless they first perceive you are 1 Introduction To The Four "Vibes": What They Are And How They Are Important Study Guide Included With Speed Seduction® "Showing Up Attractive" Course 1988-2011, Ghita Services, Inc. All Rights Reserved. www.seduction.com
an expert/authority on where they currently are. There are many different levels at which you can demonstrate authority in a woman’s world, but when I say “authority” I don’t mean the kind that comes from a gun or a badge. Vibe 3: Being Playful And Fun This simply means you can enjoy yourself on many levels and create fun out of thin air. It means being able to be playful and childlike and to bring out that side of her Vibe 4: Being Authentic This comes down to expressing what ever felt sense is going on for you in the moment, without “losing it” on one extreme or “bottling it up” on the author. It doesn’t mean being wimpy or clingy. It means that if you are angry you say, “Hey, that really pissed me off. Never do that again.” If you look at her and genuinely think, “Goddamn what a beautiful woman” then express it (ONCE!) and then get off of it. The belief behind this vibe is: “Speaking my truth is more important to me than getting into your pants”. Shows standards and conveys you have options and choices. The practice of installing the 4 vibes is explained in the Drills/Practices section of this course.
2 Introduction To The Four "Vibes": What They Are And How They Are Important Study Guide Included With Speed Seduction® "Showing Up Attractive" Course 1988-2011, Ghita Services, Inc. All Rights Reserved. www.seduction.com
