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12 Most Uncomfortable Questions About Intercourse Answered 08 Apr,2016 Health & Fitness There are a lot of questions that women ask/think regarding their intimate life, intimate body parts, the emotions their partners feel, married life, etc. However, they feel shy asking these or fear that their partners might feel uncomfortable when confronted with such questions and so, they look for an expert advice from books, etc. Here is some advice that might come in handy.
Don't women require to finish?
The solo sure-thing in women is about the lady parts. However, around 30% of women climax in the absence of stimulation, remarks a licensed psychologist Dr Laurie Mintz, PhD. So if intercourse for women doesn't involve their private parts, then either with manual stimulant or with sexual positions, the climax wouldn't be in the cards. Mintz indicated to adjust the expectations. She said, "Start thinking about climax as a before or after
intercourse thing".
Why dry even when turned on?
This depends on the women. If they're perimenopausal, then blame estrogen. They need a sufficient amount of the hormone in order to maintain the lubrication, and which is when the level naturally declines. They may not yet be in that hot flash phase. Antihistamines could dry up the vulva and their nose. Mintz said,"Hot tub chemicals, caffeine, and even stress can promote the dryness, too".
What's the G-spot?
This report was published in May 2012 release of the "Journal of Sexual Medicine", in which Adam Ostrzenski, M.D and, a semi-retired Florida-based gynaecologist, insisted on having found the G-spot location through dissecting a deceased 83-year-old woman's body. Unfortunately, the women won't be able to look for theirs via Google Maps or apple maps anytime soon. This is because the G-spot, isn't an organ, it's an anatomical area, and not only does it vary greatly in exact location from woman to woman, it's much more defined in some than in others." according to Brizendine.
Does a marriage without intimacy exist?
Up to 20% of married couples engage in intercourse 10 times in a year or less. And, one in three pairs, who are non-married and have been with each other for more than two years have a less intimate relationship. Hence, it's more regular than anyone thinks. Yet, is it ideal?
How to tell the problem?
This should be done very carefully. "Many men feel insecure about their performance in bed, so before you address it, boost his ego by assuring him you enjoy hooking up with him in any capacity, not just via intercourse," said Amber Madison, MA, a therapist in New York City.
Is youth hormone zone best for physical intimacy?
Physiologically, a woman reaches her top at age 19, said Brizendine, who is a neuropsychiatrist working at the University of California, San Francisco. This is when oestrogen, that retains the lubrication, and testosterone, that stokes sex drive, maxes out. Yet, really now, 19? This isn't the age at which many women would say that they have had or currently having the intercourse of their lives. And this is precisely the point. The best physical intimacy is about psychology and isn't about physiology.
What would be an interesting alternative?
Riffle the Sex Position Colouring Book which is what it sounds like, a collection of 101 ready to colour intimate positions. "The most informative book a man and a woman and a box of crayons have ever shared," promises cheeky back cover. It is silly, but this is kinda the point. "It's a fantastic way to open lines of communication with your partner because it makes light of the sometimes awkward discussion of what to do in the bedroom," says Monica Sweeney, a writer, and editor who helped in developing the book.
What about the bedroom talks?
A phrase from the book, Sex Talk 101 says, "don't stop!" "If you like it and he likes it, there's no reason to stop," says Madison. "Technically, you don't need both people to participate." However, if emotionally you do need him, try coaching your partners a bit. "He probably doesn't know where to start and doesn't want to look dumb," Madison adds. "Encourage him to talk about what's happening in the moment—what he likes, what he likes even more."
How to bring new elements to bed?
Do you want to extract your inner Anastasia Steele? Give your partner one copy of the book, "Fifty Shades of Grey" and have him carefully mark five things which pique his interest. And then do the same about what you want to try. After this, talk about why you both chose them and explore these which you settle on together. To heat up your bedroom tonight, begin with some intimate props which won't scare the guy away, says Marisa Bennett, the author of Fifty Shades of Pleasure.
Intercourse on first date acceptable?
As stated by a survey of 568 American women, one-third reported engaging in intercourse on the first date with the person they met online and 27% had oral intercourse. "The reality is that, if you have a good connection with someone, the rules mostly go out the window," says relationship guru Andrea Syrtash, co-author of "It's Okay to Sleep with Him on the First Date and Every Other Rule of Dating, Debunked". She said, "That doesn't mean you don't have some strategies or follow social cues, but it means you follow your gut and your heart more than arbitrary rules."
What's a subtle way to introduce a toy in bed?
Look for something so congenial that you would be able to buy at Target. "You don't need to run to your local Kink Mart for angled foam platforms or suspension bondage gear," said Bennett, who is the author of "101 Things to Do with a Vibrator". She adds "Everything you need to get your groove on is right at home."
Do men care if women are waxed down there?
Many women have this question that whether men like women who are groomed or waxed down there. "If you ask guys on the street what they think about pubic hair, a lot may say they want grooming," says Madison. She adds "It's a preference, no more, no less. But when it comes down to actual behavior, it's a little different. If he's turned on by you, he won't care about it.”
Don't women require to finish?
The solo sure-thing in women is about the lady parts. However, around 30% of women climax in the absence of stimulation, remarks a licensed psychologist Dr Laurie Mintz, PhD. So if intercourse for women doesn't involve their private parts, then either with manual stimulant or with sexual positions, the climax wouldn't be in the cards. Mintz indicated to adjust the expectations. She said, "Start thinking about climax as a before or after
intercourse thing".
Why dry even when turned on?
This depends on the women. If they're perimenopausal, then blame estrogen. They need a sufficient amount of the hormone in order to maintain the lubrication, and which is when the level naturally declines. They may not yet be in that hot flash phase. Antihistamines could dry up the vulva and their nose. Mintz said,"Hot tub chemicals, caffeine, and even stress can promote the dryness, too".
What's the G-spot?
This report was published in May 2012 release of the "Journal of Sexual Medicine", in which Adam Ostrzenski, M.D and, a semi-retired Florida-based gynaecologist, insisted on having found the G-spot location through dissecting a deceased 83-year-old woman's body. Unfortunately, the women won't be able to look for theirs via Google Maps or apple maps anytime soon. This is because the G-spot, isn't an organ, it's an anatomical area, and not only does it vary greatly in exact location from woman to woman, it's much more defined in some than in others." according to Brizendine.
Does a marriage without intimacy exist?
Up to 20% of married couples engage in intercourse 10 times in a year or less. And, one in three pairs, who are non-married and have been with each other for more than two years have a less intimate relationship. Hence, it's more regular than anyone thinks. Yet, is it ideal?
How to tell the problem?
This should be done very carefully. "Many men feel insecure about their performance in bed, so before you address it, boost his ego by assuring him you enjoy hooking up with him in any capacity, not just via intercourse," said Amber Madison, MA, a therapist in New York City.
Is youth hormone zone best for physical intimacy?
Physiologically, a woman reaches her top at age 19, said Brizendine, who is a neuropsychiatrist working at the University of California, San Francisco. This is when oestrogen, that retains the lubrication, and testosterone, that stokes sex drive, maxes out. Yet, really now, 19? This isn't the age at which many women would say that they have had or currently having the intercourse of their lives. And this is precisely the point. The best physical intimacy is about psychology and isn't about physiology.
What would be an interesting alternative?
Riffle the Sex Position Colouring Book which is what it sounds like, a collection of 101 ready to colour intimate positions. "The most informative book a man and a woman and a box of crayons have ever shared," promises cheeky back cover. It is silly, but this is kinda the point. "It's a fantastic way to open lines of communication with your partner because it makes light of the sometimes awkward discussion of what to do in the bedroom," says Monica Sweeney, a writer, and editor who helped in developing the book.
What about the bedroom talks?
A phrase from the book, Sex Talk 101 says, "don't stop!" "If you like it and he likes it, there's no reason to stop," says Madison. "Technically, you don't need both people to participate." However, if emotionally you do need him, try coaching your partners a bit. "He probably doesn't know where to start and doesn't want to look dumb," Madison adds. "Encourage him to talk about what's happening in the moment—what he likes, what he likes even more."
How to bring new elements to bed?
Do you want to extract your inner Anastasia Steele? Give your partner one copy of the book, "Fifty Shades of Grey" and have him carefully mark five things which pique his interest. And then do the same about what you want to try. After this, talk about why you both chose them and explore these which you settle on together. To heat up your bedroom tonight, begin with some intimate props which won't scare the guy away, says Marisa Bennett, the author of Fifty Shades of Pleasure.
Intercourse on first date acceptable?
As stated by a survey of 568 American women, one-third reported engaging in intercourse on the first date with the person they met online and 27% had oral intercourse. "The reality is that, if you have a good connection with someone, the rules mostly go out the window," says relationship guru Andrea Syrtash, co-author of "It's Okay to Sleep with Him on the First Date and Every Other Rule of Dating, Debunked". She said, "That doesn't mean you don't have some strategies or follow social cues, but it means you follow your gut and your heart more than arbitrary rules."
What's a subtle way to introduce a toy in bed?
Look for something so congenial that you would be able to buy at Target. "You don't need to run to your local Kink Mart for angled foam platforms or suspension bondage gear," said Bennett, who is the author of "101 Things to Do with a Vibrator". She adds "Everything you need to get your groove on is right at home."
Do men care if women are waxed down there?
Many women have this question that whether men like women who are groomed or waxed down there. "If you ask guys on the street what they think about pubic hair, a lot may say they want grooming," says Madison. She adds "It's a preference, no more, no less. But when it comes down to actual behavior, it's a little different. If he's turned on by you, he won't care about it.”
