Why People Do What They Do Designing Your Personal Brand
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“Why do people do what they do?”
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What is Temperament?
Temperament is that part of the personality that is genetically based. It is like having brown eyes or being left‐handed. It is part of who you are.
We all have to interact with people we don’t fully understand
Don’t tell me How you feel, Tell me what You think!
I’m so sorry I’m late…but you won’t believe what Happened!
Let’s stick to the agenda people!
Are you upset with me?
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So What Do We Know Now? ① This research stood the test of time. ② There are four basic temperaments. ③ You are born with one that is dominant.
You Got All That?
④ You are not just one temperament. ⑤ It doesn’t explain it all. ⑥ We can simplify this!
Let’s take a closer look at temperaments… starting with ourselves
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Personality Temperaments What is YOUR Temperament?
Your Name Tag
BLUE
GOLD
GREEN
ORANGE
Place the dots on your name tag, from left to right, in order of most like you to least like you.
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Maslow’s Hierarchy of Fundamental Human Needs
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Needs vs. Wants
BLUE Relationships
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BLUE Relationships • Optimistic
• Empathetic
• Genuine
• Compassionate
• Idealistic
• Nurturing
• Intuitive
• Devoted
• Friendly
• Spiritual
• Tactful
• Peacemaker
• Supportive
• Romantic
• Imaginative
• Emotional
15 ‐ 20% Of People
GOLD Responsibility
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GOLD Responsibility • Organized
• Prepared
• Consistent
• Predictable
• Realistic
• Committed
• Steadfast
• Traditional
• Direct
• Detailed
• Proper
• Dutiful
• Loyal
• Punctual
• Practical
• Meticulous
40 – 45% Of People
GREEN Competence
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GREEN Competence • Insightful
• Logical
• Inquisitive
• Direct
• Analytical
• Researcher
• Visionary
• Strategic
• Rational
• Problem Solver
• Conceptual
• Factual
• Investigative
• Knowledgeable
• Perfectionist
• Contained
5 ‐10% Of People
ORANGE Freedom
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ORANGE Freedom • Adventurous
• Competitive
• Spontaneous
• Generous
• Playful
• Creative
• Flexible
• Multi‐tasker
• Resourceful
• Action‐oriented
• Courageous
• Entertaining
• Motivational
• Approachable
30 ‐ 35% Of People
• Performer
In Summary, Remember… Blue: Difficult to separate who they are from what they do. Gold: Seek rules and structure. Green: Looking for data. Often skips the empathy. Orange: Need options and freedom. Don’t micro‐manage.
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WITH WITHOUT
BLUE
Nurturing Peaceful Teamwork
Sterile Cold Disconnected
GOLD
Organization Safety Structure
Chaos Unpredictable Unstable
GREEN
Strategy Innovation Vision
Stagnant Stuck in the Past Subjective
ORANGE
Fun Adventure Creativity
Bored Belabored Unimaginative
WITH WITHOUT
BLUE
Nurturing Peaceful Teamwork
Sterile Cold Disconnected
GOLD
Organization Safety Structure
Chaos Unpredictable Unstable
GREEN
Strategy Innovation Vision
Stagnant Stuck in the Past Subjective
Fun Adventure Creativity
Bored Belabored Unimaginative
ORANGE
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After you understand your temperament… it’s time to look at your personal interaction style
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Interaction Styles 1. How you process information 2. Where you get your energy from
Introvert Extrovert Let’s take a test…
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Introvert
Extrovert
Processes internally before speaking Speaks while thinking Measured or deliberate pace Fast paced Waits to talk until other person is done Wants to speak immediately, will interrupt Smooth and consistent voice tone Animated and expressive tone Soft to moderate voice level Moderate to loud voice level Indiscernible facial expressions Obvious facial expressions Minimal gesturing and body movement Broad gestures and body movements Likes silence and pauses while talking Uncomfortable with silence and pauses Prefers not to call attention to self Attracts and enjoys attention Waits for others to approach Readily talks to strangers
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Extrovert 1. External thinking process 2. Gathers energy externally
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Extroverts Thinking Process: • Speaks while thinking • Wants to speak immediately • Says whatever comes to mind • Sometimes acts before thinking • Fast‐paced
Extroverts Energy Source • Enjoys group activities
• Readily talks to strangers
• Likes to be around other people
• Energized by being around
• Enjoys attention
people and activity
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Introvert 1. Internal Thinking Process 2. Gathers Energy Internally
Introverts Thinking Process • Waits to communicate until
other person has finished • Rehearses internally and
doesn't say everything they think
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Introverts Energy Source • Prefers individual activities
• Prefers peace and quiet
• Works well by themselves
• Has a few close friends
• Enjoys time alone
• Energized by solitude
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