PR E T EEN S
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PRETEENS
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CONTENTS
Landry Holmes
BIBLE STUDIES FOR LIFE : PRETEENS
Manager, Kids Ministry Publishing
UNIT 1. WATCH OUT!
Director, Kids Ministry Send questions/comments to
SESSION 1: Good Attitudes..................................................................... 3
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SESSION 2: Resist Temptation................................................................. 5
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SESSION 3: Treat Others Right................................................................ 7
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SESSION 4: Speak Kindly to All People................................................. 9 SESSION 5: Loving the Unlovable........................................................ 11 SESSION 6: It’s Not Going to Be Easy................................................... 13
UNIT 2. GETTING ALONG SESSION 1: The Best Option.................................................................. 15 SESSION 2: Do the Right Thing............................................................. 17 SESSION 3: Walk Away............................................................................ 19 SESSION 4: Speaking Up........................................................................ 21 SESSION 5: Stepping In.......................................................................... 23 SESSION 6: God’s Big Plan...................................................................... 25
SPECIAL FOCUS: Thanking God............................................................ 27
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UNIT 1. SESSION 1
Good Attitudes
LIFE VERSE Humble yourselves before the Lord, and He will exalt you. –J A M E S 4 :10
LONG AND SHORT OF IT
Ever “ herd ” of a huddle of penguins? A pod of porpoises? Match the verses to the correct “be-attitude” to find funny names for groups of animals.
1. Poor in spirit
A. I saiah 25:4
a shrewdness of
2. Mourn
apes
B. 1 Timothy 4:12
a sloth of
3. Gentle
jellyfish
C. E phesians 4:2
a clowder of
Always
cats
4. Hunger and thirst for D. P salm 34:14 righteousness hippopotamuses a mob of
5. Merciful a business of IMAGE CREDIT: SHUTTERSTOCK.COM
Move your marker up and down the meter when your leader asks you some survey questions.
6. P ure in heart a smack of
7. Peacemakers a bloat of
8. Persecuted for righteousness
Mostly
E. Psalm 31:9-10 bears
Sometimes
F. P salm 40:8 emus
Rarely
G. L uke 6:36 ferrets
Never
H. P salm 69:9 giraffes
a tower of BIBLE STUDIES FOR LIFE PRETEENS
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ONE CONVERSATION™
Use these discussion starters to help foster a spiritual conversation with your family.
THE BIBLE MEETS LIFE: Life is filled with struggles. Maybe you’ve heard the saying, “When life gives you a lemon, just make lemonade,” but that’s a lot easier said than done. When you’re going through a trial in your life, the last thing you want to hear is a cheesy saying. You need real help and a real understanding of God’s purpose for your struggle. In the Book of James, we discover how, through Christ, we can overcome our trials and turn them into joy.
JAMES 1:1-4 Concept: Good Attitudes
PRESCHOOL MATTHEW 5:1-12 LIFE POINT: We can trust God. • What are some ways that Jesus showed kindness to people? • Who is kind to you? • How can you show kindness to other people?
LIVE IT OUT: Think of different reactions to scenarios your child has faced. Tell those reactions to your preschooler, and ask him to say whether each action shows a good attitude or a bad attitude. Help your child think about how Jesus was kind. Talk together about one person he can show kindness to. Help him think of a way to show kindness to someone and to carry it out.
KIDS MATTHEW 5:1-12 LIFE POINT: Keep a good attitude at all times. • Why did Jesus say you should be blessed when people persecute you? • Are you ever teased because of your Christian beliefs?
LIVE IT OUT: Sit down with your child, and make a list of attitudes, both good and bad. Ask your child to draw a facial expression that a person with each of those attitudes might have. Remind your child this week that when he faces a problem to ask himself what he thinks Jesus’ attitude would be when dealing with that problem.
STUDENTS JAMES 1:1-4 THE POINT: Joyful trust in God will get you through any trial. • What’s a struggle we’ve faced together as a family? • Are you struggling with anything right now I can help you with? Discuss the following quote: “You can’t always control circumstances. However, you can always control your attitude, approach, and response.”1 —Tony Dungy 1. Tony Dungy, Whitaker, Quiet Strength: The Principles, Practices, & Priorities of a Winning Life (Carol Stream, IL: Tyndale House Publishers, Inc., 2007), 16.
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LIVE IT OUT: Your student has been encouraged to do one or both Live It Out activities in the Personal Study Guide. Here are some suggested ways to help your student: If he plans to complete Connect the Dots: • Remind your student that God uses trials for our good. • Help him think of the best way to respond to specific trials he may face. If he plans to do Endurance: • Let him help you pick a visual reminder of endurance. • Tell him about how God has strengthened you through trials.