Dress Code for the Confirmation Mass Young Men: dress pants, dress shoes (no athletic shoes), a dress shirt (either white or blue) with a collar and a conservative tie. Young men should not wear earrings. Young Ladies: modest dress clothes such as a dress or skirt and dress shoes with sensible heel height. Dress pants are allowed although typically no one wears them: No plunging necklines or miniskirts or apparel with sheer “see through” fabric are permitted. Nail polish if worn should be traditional, light colors.