how to handle a bully
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Name
Date
If I Were President
Presidents have many decisions to make! Imagine that you have been elected President. What would you do? Draw and write your ideas. Who my Vice President would be
President
What my pet would be
Who would live with me in the White House
(your name)
How I would help people
NAME:________________________________________________________________CLASS:__________ ANTI-BULLYING WORKSHEETS 1) Write down what you think would be a good definition of bullying ? ______________________________________________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________________________________________
2) Which of these do you think is bullying ? YES 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16
Ahmed asks Alex for some money and says "If you don't lend it, I won't be vour friend." David spreads a false rumour about Van stealing money. Alice elbows Lia on her way into class one dav. Gino keeps telephoning Sandra at home even after she's asked him to stop. After an argument Henrietta tells the other girls not to sit with Therese one lunch time. A couple of boys keep making comments about Mia's body, which upsets her Vikram asks people to his birthday party and, in front of everyone, Vikram tells Jason that he's not invited. They had never been friends Vanessa and Sonya keep making signs behind Leah's back. Bob tells Vanu how stupid she is, over and over again. often when others are listening. Steve tells Henry to lend him some basketball cards or else Alicia pretends to ask Alister to go to party and when he agrees she says "DER" and goes back laughing to her friends. Sally is waiting in line for lunch at the canteen. Henry pushes in front of her without asking, but later says sorry. A group of students demand your money or something else valuable to you. Ardy makes rude comments about Sheree and says them loud enough for everyone to hear. Missy uses information she over hears to make Ange look bad in front of her friends. April tells a secret to June about Maybelle that isn’t true and Maybelle tells everyone.
NO
MAYBE
ARE YOU A BULLY ?? Have you ever done any of these things or seen anyone do these things? -- picked on someone or made fun of them because of their appearance ? -- picked on someone or made fun of them because they gave a wrong answer in class? -- made fun of someone for being different to yourself (physically or intellectually) ? -- made fun of someone for doing something nice for someone else or being helpful ? -- threatened people to do what you want ? -- tried to get money or goods from someone by threatening them ? -- made fun of the same people more than once? -- been part of a group that picks on one person or a number of people and laughs at their expense ? -- refused to stop annoying someone when they have asked you to leave them alone ? -- made fun of someone because they are working and you don’t want to ? -- made fun of someone for not being as good at something as you are ? -- made fun of someone for the way they speak or move? -- made fun of someone for being from another country ? -- shoved, pinched, or hit a person to get what you want or make them uncomfortable? -- bribed someone to do something for you by threatening to tell secrets ? -- excluded someone from your group because you didn’t like them ? -- spread rumours about someone behind their back ? -- told stories about someone behind their back so others won’t like them ? -- tried to cause trouble for your friends by telling other what they have said about them ? -- stood really close to someone to make them feel uncomfortable ? -- hidden someones belongings so they couldn’t find them? -- threatening to keep someone silent by saying “If you tell, it will be a lot worse!” or “I’ll get you” ? -- encouraged other people to make some one else feel bad by excluding them from a group or ignoring them -- tried to make someone else do your homework
Y
N
Seen it
HOW WOULD YOU FEEL IF …..? Pick 3 things from the list in the boxes labelled “ARE YOU A BULLY?” and write how you would feel if this happened to you. 1)………………………………………………………………………………………………………………… …………………………………………………………………………………………………………………… 2)………………………………………………………………………………………………………………… …………………………………………………………………………………………………………………… 3)………………………………………………………………………………………………………………… ……………………………………………………………………………………………………………………
HOW CAN YOU HELP STOP BULLYING ? IF YOU ARE BEING BULLIED:
IF YOU SEE SOME ONE BEING BULLIED:
HOW TO HANDLE A BULLY: Bullies seek POWER and want to hurt you to make themselves feel better. WHAT COULD YOU DO/SAY in RESPONSE ? EXAMPLES: SOMEONE SAYS ? YOU SAY B
You’re fat
C
We don’t want you to play with us
D
I don’t like you
E
F
We don’t want you in our group
You’re a jerk!;
Body wise? Am I? Well thank you for that. Too kind, I’m mind wise too. Intuition told me that because I am emotionally intelligent. But thanks for letting me know anyway. I’ll go play with Sally. Touché! Well it’s a waste of my time touching your heart then! Superior! I can go make some new friends and start a new group then. So where’s your evidence, for goodness sake? I have five friends who say otherwise.
NOW IT IS YOUR TURN: Write response for the following and add in a few you have heard others use 1 You’re fat
2
We don’t want you to play with us
3
I don’t like you
4
We don’t want you in our group
5
You’re a jerk!;
6
7
8
9
10
Name
Date
If I Were President
Presidents have many decisions to make! Imagine that you have been elected President. What would you do? Draw and write your ideas. Who my Vice President would be
President
What my pet would be
Who would live with me in the White House
(your name)
How I would help people
NAME:________________________________________________________________CLASS:__________ ANTI-BULLYING WORKSHEETS 1) Write down what you think would be a good definition of bullying ? ______________________________________________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________________________________________
2) Which of these do you think is bullying ? YES 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16
Ahmed asks Alex for some money and says "If you don't lend it, I won't be vour friend." David spreads a false rumour about Van stealing money. Alice elbows Lia on her way into class one dav. Gino keeps telephoning Sandra at home even after she's asked him to stop. After an argument Henrietta tells the other girls not to sit with Therese one lunch time. A couple of boys keep making comments about Mia's body, which upsets her Vikram asks people to his birthday party and, in front of everyone, Vikram tells Jason that he's not invited. They had never been friends Vanessa and Sonya keep making signs behind Leah's back. Bob tells Vanu how stupid she is, over and over again. often when others are listening. Steve tells Henry to lend him some basketball cards or else Alicia pretends to ask Alister to go to party and when he agrees she says "DER" and goes back laughing to her friends. Sally is waiting in line for lunch at the canteen. Henry pushes in front of her without asking, but later says sorry. A group of students demand your money or something else valuable to you. Ardy makes rude comments about Sheree and says them loud enough for everyone to hear. Missy uses information she over hears to make Ange look bad in front of her friends. April tells a secret to June about Maybelle that isn’t true and Maybelle tells everyone.
NO
MAYBE
ARE YOU A BULLY ?? Have you ever done any of these things or seen anyone do these things? -- picked on someone or made fun of them because of their appearance ? -- picked on someone or made fun of them because they gave a wrong answer in class? -- made fun of someone for being different to yourself (physically or intellectually) ? -- made fun of someone for doing something nice for someone else or being helpful ? -- threatened people to do what you want ? -- tried to get money or goods from someone by threatening them ? -- made fun of the same people more than once? -- been part of a group that picks on one person or a number of people and laughs at their expense ? -- refused to stop annoying someone when they have asked you to leave them alone ? -- made fun of someone because they are working and you don’t want to ? -- made fun of someone for not being as good at something as you are ? -- made fun of someone for the way they speak or move? -- made fun of someone for being from another country ? -- shoved, pinched, or hit a person to get what you want or make them uncomfortable? -- bribed someone to do something for you by threatening to tell secrets ? -- excluded someone from your group because you didn’t like them ? -- spread rumours about someone behind their back ? -- told stories about someone behind their back so others won’t like them ? -- tried to cause trouble for your friends by telling other what they have said about them ? -- stood really close to someone to make them feel uncomfortable ? -- hidden someones belongings so they couldn’t find them? -- threatening to keep someone silent by saying “If you tell, it will be a lot worse!” or “I’ll get you” ? -- encouraged other people to make some one else feel bad by excluding them from a group or ignoring them -- tried to make someone else do your homework
Y
N
Seen it
HOW WOULD YOU FEEL IF …..? Pick 3 things from the list in the boxes labelled “ARE YOU A BULLY?” and write how you would feel if this happened to you. 1)………………………………………………………………………………………………………………… …………………………………………………………………………………………………………………… 2)………………………………………………………………………………………………………………… …………………………………………………………………………………………………………………… 3)………………………………………………………………………………………………………………… ……………………………………………………………………………………………………………………
HOW CAN YOU HELP STOP BULLYING ? IF YOU ARE BEING BULLIED:
IF YOU SEE SOME ONE BEING BULLIED:
HOW TO HANDLE A BULLY: Bullies seek POWER and want to hurt you to make themselves feel better. WHAT COULD YOU DO/SAY in RESPONSE ? EXAMPLES: SOMEONE SAYS ? YOU SAY B
You’re fat
C
We don’t want you to play with us
D
I don’t like you
E
F
We don’t want you in our group
You’re a jerk!;
Body wise? Am I? Well thank you for that. Too kind, I’m mind wise too. Intuition told me that because I am emotionally intelligent. But thanks for letting me know anyway. I’ll go play with Sally. Touché! Well it’s a waste of my time touching your heart then! Superior! I can go make some new friends and start a new group then. So where’s your evidence, for goodness sake? I have five friends who say otherwise.
NOW IT IS YOUR TURN: Write response for the following and add in a few you have heard others use 1 You’re fat
2
We don’t want you to play with us
3
I don’t like you
4
We don’t want you in our group
5
You’re a jerk!;
6
7
8
9
10
