Yosef knew it was dangerous to go to his brothers, but he went anyway, so there could be a Yetzias Mitzrayim later.
On R nd a osh Hashan , r u p p i a and Yom K every es d i c We areotin of Sheva Brachos e d hethe m r daweek e y too, Hash how s! after the Rebbe to givand e evRebbetzin's ery Yid chayuchasuna!
Rambam:HilchosMegillahV'Chanukah-HilchosIshus :מצות עשה רי"ג ()פרשת כי תצא
""כִּי י ִ ַקּח אִישׁ ִא ׁ ּ ָשה וּ ְב ָעלָהּ
Shabbos candles are more important than the Chanukah menorah, because they bring Shalom Bayis.