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Part One
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The Secret
Psychology of Attraction
Ben Kennedy
Introduction The psychology of attraction is all about what makes people tick. Figure it out and you will be able to turn people on with ease. What does that lead to? Sex and if you want them relationships. Attraction is the foundation of all human relationships. It’s not just about looks. It’s about magnetism. This applies to attracting women you want to sleep and be with, plus attracting friends, business partners, and more. While attraction is undoubtedly complex, this guide will give you plenty of quick facts and tips on it to make it as easy to understand as possible. The Four Types Of Attraction If you think all attraction is the same, you'd be wrong. In fact, there are four different types of attraction. And you can thank evolution for that. Attraction didn't just appear with humans it appeared millions of years ago with reptilians. And it's the way reptilians lived that formed the four different types of attraction that affect us as humans now. The four different types of attraction can be formed into a pyramid depending on their roles or importance. Here it is, listed from bottom to top: 1. Status 2. Health 3. Emotional 4. Logic
At the bottom of the pyramid sit two types of attraction: Status and health. These are the foundation of the pyramid, so without status or health, there is no attraction at all. There are two types of status. The first is internal, which deals with your confidence, belief system, and skill set. The second is external, which deals with visual things, your job, and material possessions. Which is more important when it comes to attraction? Internal or external status? The answer to that is internal status, and you can attribute that to the value women place on men having confidence. Will some women seek external status (a highpaying job, fancy car, Rolex watch) over a guy who's confident? Sure, but those types of women are known as golddiggers, and you don’t want them, do you? While we're on the topic of the importance of internal status in attraction, you'll find that building your confidence is probably the most important thing to focus on. If you lack confidence, not only will you fail to believe in yourself, but so will women. The best way to be confident is to simply be yourself. But you can also do it by getting as close as you can to mastering a skill. So maybe you suck at sports because you're too short and slow. Try mastering a skill in something else that you enjoy.
It could be anything really. What's important is the mastery, which will not only make you feel confident in knowing you successfully conquered something, but will also make you more interesting to women. You may find another benefit from mastering a skill and building your internal status through confidence: You'll be able to boost your external status as well, because that skill mastery could land you some money via a new job or extra gigs on the side. Moving on, health is the second type of attraction that builds the pyramid's foundation. It covers your intelligence, appearance, how you move, your grooming, etc. It's pretty obvious why health is such an important type of attraction, because would you want a woman who was dumb, completely unattractive, moved like a sloth, and smelled like one too? I didn't think so. Which is why your health is important in attracting women. This doesn't mean you have to be ripped and buff, but you should try to at least eat well and be in decent shape to catch a woman's eye. Even more important, if you're not the most physically attractive dude in the world, there's no excuse not to be well groomed. Shave, bathe, wash your hair, clip your nails, trim your ear and nose hair, and ensure all of your clothes are stain and stinkfree. This alone will put you ahead in the attraction game. We can't forget intelligence either, as women love a man with a brain. So if you weren't born with Einstein's intellect, try to read some books to boost your brain. It'll make you smarter, fill you with knowledge, and give you something to talk about on dates. Higher up in the attraction pyramid beyond
status and health is emotional attraction. We move onto emotional attraction after health and status are secured. This is where we actually fall in love and bond with the person. Emotional attraction can be broken down into four types: Emotional intelligence Having the power to convince her to be comfortable around you. Uncertainty Being mysterious and keeping her on her toes by not revealing everything about yourself. Uniqueness Standing out from the crowd and being different. Trust Letting her know you're not a threat. Last, but not least is logic, and it sits atop the attraction pyramid. Logic is what separates humans from other animals. It's what we use to analyze and create things that help us survive. Logical attraction is where you decide that the person is on your same level and has the same goals. Do they live in the same city? Are they around the same age? Do they want kids? The closer they're aligned to you, the more logically attracted you'll become. Recap: Attraction is complex enough that it can be broken down into four types: Status Health Emotional Logic You'll need to progress up the pyramid to meet women's needs and attract them, so: 1. Build status by building your confidence
through mastering a skill. 2. Build health by taking care of your mind and body via exercise, reading, and grooming. 3. Build your emotional attractiveness through being unique, mysterious, making her comfortable, and gaining her trust. 4. Build logical attractiveness by showcasing whatever traits you have in common with her. That wraps it up for part 1 join me in part 2, and be sure to check out Pandora's Box at www.vindicarlo.com
© 2015 Vin DiCarlo All Rights Reserved
Part One
EW
The Secret
Psychology of Attraction
Ben Kennedy
Introduction The psychology of attraction is all about what makes people tick. Figure it out and you will be able to turn people on with ease. What does that lead to? Sex and if you want them relationships. Attraction is the foundation of all human relationships. It’s not just about looks. It’s about magnetism. This applies to attracting women you want to sleep and be with, plus attracting friends, business partners, and more. While attraction is undoubtedly complex, this guide will give you plenty of quick facts and tips on it to make it as easy to understand as possible. The Four Types Of Attraction If you think all attraction is the same, you'd be wrong. In fact, there are four different types of attraction. And you can thank evolution for that. Attraction didn't just appear with humans it appeared millions of years ago with reptilians. And it's the way reptilians lived that formed the four different types of attraction that affect us as humans now. The four different types of attraction can be formed into a pyramid depending on their roles or importance. Here it is, listed from bottom to top: 1. Status 2. Health 3. Emotional 4. Logic
At the bottom of the pyramid sit two types of attraction: Status and health. These are the foundation of the pyramid, so without status or health, there is no attraction at all. There are two types of status. The first is internal, which deals with your confidence, belief system, and skill set. The second is external, which deals with visual things, your job, and material possessions. Which is more important when it comes to attraction? Internal or external status? The answer to that is internal status, and you can attribute that to the value women place on men having confidence. Will some women seek external status (a highpaying job, fancy car, Rolex watch) over a guy who's confident? Sure, but those types of women are known as golddiggers, and you don’t want them, do you? While we're on the topic of the importance of internal status in attraction, you'll find that building your confidence is probably the most important thing to focus on. If you lack confidence, not only will you fail to believe in yourself, but so will women. The best way to be confident is to simply be yourself. But you can also do it by getting as close as you can to mastering a skill. So maybe you suck at sports because you're too short and slow. Try mastering a skill in something else that you enjoy.
It could be anything really. What's important is the mastery, which will not only make you feel confident in knowing you successfully conquered something, but will also make you more interesting to women. You may find another benefit from mastering a skill and building your internal status through confidence: You'll be able to boost your external status as well, because that skill mastery could land you some money via a new job or extra gigs on the side. Moving on, health is the second type of attraction that builds the pyramid's foundation. It covers your intelligence, appearance, how you move, your grooming, etc. It's pretty obvious why health is such an important type of attraction, because would you want a woman who was dumb, completely unattractive, moved like a sloth, and smelled like one too? I didn't think so. Which is why your health is important in attracting women. This doesn't mean you have to be ripped and buff, but you should try to at least eat well and be in decent shape to catch a woman's eye. Even more important, if you're not the most physically attractive dude in the world, there's no excuse not to be well groomed. Shave, bathe, wash your hair, clip your nails, trim your ear and nose hair, and ensure all of your clothes are stain and stinkfree. This alone will put you ahead in the attraction game. We can't forget intelligence either, as women love a man with a brain. So if you weren't born with Einstein's intellect, try to read some books to boost your brain. It'll make you smarter, fill you with knowledge, and give you something to talk about on dates. Higher up in the attraction pyramid beyond
status and health is emotional attraction. We move onto emotional attraction after health and status are secured. This is where we actually fall in love and bond with the person. Emotional attraction can be broken down into four types: Emotional intelligence Having the power to convince her to be comfortable around you. Uncertainty Being mysterious and keeping her on her toes by not revealing everything about yourself. Uniqueness Standing out from the crowd and being different. Trust Letting her know you're not a threat. Last, but not least is logic, and it sits atop the attraction pyramid. Logic is what separates humans from other animals. It's what we use to analyze and create things that help us survive. Logical attraction is where you decide that the person is on your same level and has the same goals. Do they live in the same city? Are they around the same age? Do they want kids? The closer they're aligned to you, the more logically attracted you'll become. Recap: Attraction is complex enough that it can be broken down into four types: Status Health Emotional Logic You'll need to progress up the pyramid to meet women's needs and attract them, so: 1. Build status by building your confidence
through mastering a skill. 2. Build health by taking care of your mind and body via exercise, reading, and grooming. 3. Build your emotional attractiveness through being unique, mysterious, making her comfortable, and gaining her trust. 4. Build logical attractiveness by showcasing whatever traits you have in common with her. That wraps it up for part 1 join me in part 2, and be sure to check out Pandora's Box at www.vindicarlo.com
© 2015 Vin DiCarlo All Rights Reserved
