Peace in Your Life
Peace in Your Life Hello and welcome, everyone. This is Darius Barazandeh. You are tuning in, plugging in and connecting to the You Wealth Revolution. And I wanted to start out today just covering something I think that’s so valuable today and so important and that is what are the steps, what are the paths to really open up peace in your life. So many people are asking today what is it that I can do to have a more peaceful existence, to have just a little bit more certainty around my life and the way that I live? What is it I can do to really be in a place where I feel oneness, I feel joy, I feel happiness? And I’m going to share what I think at least to me are four of the most important steps for peace of mind. Now, earlier in a talk that we did a couple of days ago I talked about how do you know when something’s not really right for you; where do you feel that energy? And we compared it to how you might react to a certain food or to a certain person. Deep down in your gut you can do these tests just thinking about someone in your life that maybe you really feel drawn to that leaves you feeling peaceful and how that feels in your body, that settled feeling, maybe that magnetism that makes you feel drawn to them. Yet at the same time you can imagine somebody that, well, they leave you feeling a little bit uneasy or a little bit uncomfortable and you almost feel yourself not really wanting to go much closer to this person or uneasy when you’re around them. Well, the same is true with how we think, how we hear voices, how we perceive situations and opportunities. So if you’ll go back to that exercise that we did, you know, just feel in, even if you don’t have the exercise, to what feels right for you. You’ll be able to navigate these four most important steps for inner peace I think very easily. The first one that I’ve adopted in my life is not to do anything that disturbs my peace. So in other words Number 1 is don’t do anything that disturbs your peace. And if you’re asked to do something that deep down doesn’t feel right or feels like it’s a little bit off or doesn’t feel ethical or just feels like it’s not really in alignment with your life, then don’t do it. Now, many times we’ll get opportunities to go share something, maybe to go speak in public - which is a big fear a lot of people have – or maybe go to a meeting or maybe to connect with possibly a new love in our life and yes there can be some uncomfortableness there because we’ve never done it, or maybe have a fear of moving forward. That’s a little different than that deep down dread that you might feel when something is just totally out of alignment.
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I compare it… When there’s an opportunity and something exciting coming up in our life, I kind of compare it to this feeling of ‘yeah, I’m a little bit nervous and I really don’t know if I’m going to do it well’. But there’s a little bit of excitement there, there’s a little bit of a challenge, little bit of a ‘wow, if this really, really works out, oh my God, it could be so amazing’. But if it’s something deep down that’s really dreadful, that you really are totally at your core not aligned with, it’s never going to have that lure of being an exciting thing if it all works out. It’s just going to be bad through and through. You’re going to feel like oh my gosh, just thing about this is draining. The second thing is to listen when your heart tells you it’s not right. So many times we’ll hear these voices. And there’s two voices I think that come up in most people’s lives and I’m speaking from my own experience. The first one is the voice of the head. And the voice of the head is usually the one that will tell you that ah, it might work out; there’s some benefit on the other side of this; or you should be doing this because there’s an economic reason or you should be doing it because everyone’s telling you to do it, like your family or your friends. And that voice oftentimes can be wrong. But there’s another voice and it’s the voice deep down in our heart. That’s the voice that really doesn’t care about the economics of a situation, whether it’s going to be profitable or not; doesn’t really care about that your friends are telling you or your parents are telling you; it doesn’t really care about what society wants you to do. It’s the voice of your soul. Learn to distinguish between those two voices, because that’s the second thing you can do to stay in a place of peace and happiness The third thing you can do if you really feel like you’re off is ask Spirit, ask your guides what you can do to bring peace in your life. So even if Part 1, Part 2, Step 1, Step 2 fail, you still have Step 3. Just ask help. Ask for discernment and take time to receive it. The last thing I’m going to share is this: Take 5 minutes, or as much as 10 or 15, but 5 minutes minimum a day just to center around the thoughts, the feelings, and the places that you truly feel peaceful at. What I mean by that is sometimes just changing our energy and how we think can instantly create peace in our body. If we just take a moment to think about something that really inspires us, something that really aligns with us - a scene, a memory, a future event that we may plan, a trip just to be in nature or with loved ones, a reunion, people we care about and likeminded souls – whatever it is – time with our pets - whatever it is. If you live in a cold climate, imagining just that day during the year when it’s going to be sunny and the flowers are blooming and your loved ones are there smiling with their faces in the sun. Whatever it is bring that into your heart and into your mind. Plant that into the garden of your energy system and begin to allow that peace and that energy to circulate through your whole life. And you can do this every day. You can do this with things you want to accomplish, places you want to go, things you want to create in your life around your abundance, 2
around your family, around your love, around your health, around your fitness. I do it every day. I live in the unseen world. So my seen world is that of my creation. Think about that for a moment. What is abundance to you specifically? What is thriving and this ability to thrive to you specifically? What does it mean? How much would it be in your life, you know, in terms of financial income? What would thriving mean in your life? Would it mean that you can run down the beach for a mile and not get tired? Would it mean that you feel good and, you know, you go out and you meet new people and you do one new thing a month? What does it mean for you? And I say this for everybody. The more specific you can be, the more you can actually begin to move forward in that direction. Your mind and heart, your consciousness will meet you. Just be very clear exactly what it is that you want to see happen – exactly. I’ll share this quick story. When I went through my first marriage ending, I remember I put together a vision board. And so many of us have seen that from The Secret and many times we think, well, that’s just kind of, you know, silly. But I did it, because I wanted to keep my mind on very specific things in my heart that really matter to me. And one of them was family. And one of the pictures that I had was a picture of a young person with their wife and they were holding actually two twin boys, believe it or not. And I stared at this and stared at this and I worked and I did everything that I was doing in my life trying to move forward, creating something new, and it wasn’t but three and a half to four years later – probably three and a half years later – that we had two twin boys that looked very much like that picture. And it’s kind of funny because I always showed the picture to my wife and she said, ‘Even that person looks kind of like me,’ – the lady in the picture. And, you know, it wasn’t about finding something that fit a mold but your heart and your consciousness move based on very, very specific intuitions and instructions that you have in your essence and you create this blueprint of your reality. So be clear on what it is you want. Much love
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I compare it… When there’s an opportunity and something exciting coming up in our life, I kind of compare it to this feeling of ‘yeah, I’m a little bit nervous and I really don’t know if I’m going to do it well’. But there’s a little bit of excitement there, there’s a little bit of a challenge, little bit of a ‘wow, if this really, really works out, oh my God, it could be so amazing’. But if it’s something deep down that’s really dreadful, that you really are totally at your core not aligned with, it’s never going to have that lure of being an exciting thing if it all works out. It’s just going to be bad through and through. You’re going to feel like oh my gosh, just thing about this is draining. The second thing is to listen when your heart tells you it’s not right. So many times we’ll hear these voices. And there’s two voices I think that come up in most people’s lives and I’m speaking from my own experience. The first one is the voice of the head. And the voice of the head is usually the one that will tell you that ah, it might work out; there’s some benefit on the other side of this; or you should be doing this because there’s an economic reason or you should be doing it because everyone’s telling you to do it, like your family or your friends. And that voice oftentimes can be wrong. But there’s another voice and it’s the voice deep down in our heart. That’s the voice that really doesn’t care about the economics of a situation, whether it’s going to be profitable or not; doesn’t really care about that your friends are telling you or your parents are telling you; it doesn’t really care about what society wants you to do. It’s the voice of your soul. Learn to distinguish between those two voices, because that’s the second thing you can do to stay in a place of peace and happiness The third thing you can do if you really feel like you’re off is ask Spirit, ask your guides what you can do to bring peace in your life. So even if Part 1, Part 2, Step 1, Step 2 fail, you still have Step 3. Just ask help. Ask for discernment and take time to receive it. The last thing I’m going to share is this: Take 5 minutes, or as much as 10 or 15, but 5 minutes minimum a day just to center around the thoughts, the feelings, and the places that you truly feel peaceful at. What I mean by that is sometimes just changing our energy and how we think can instantly create peace in our body. If we just take a moment to think about something that really inspires us, something that really aligns with us - a scene, a memory, a future event that we may plan, a trip just to be in nature or with loved ones, a reunion, people we care about and likeminded souls – whatever it is – time with our pets - whatever it is. If you live in a cold climate, imagining just that day during the year when it’s going to be sunny and the flowers are blooming and your loved ones are there smiling with their faces in the sun. Whatever it is bring that into your heart and into your mind. Plant that into the garden of your energy system and begin to allow that peace and that energy to circulate through your whole life. And you can do this every day. You can do this with things you want to accomplish, places you want to go, things you want to create in your life around your abundance, 2
around your family, around your love, around your health, around your fitness. I do it every day. I live in the unseen world. So my seen world is that of my creation. Think about that for a moment. What is abundance to you specifically? What is thriving and this ability to thrive to you specifically? What does it mean? How much would it be in your life, you know, in terms of financial income? What would thriving mean in your life? Would it mean that you can run down the beach for a mile and not get tired? Would it mean that you feel good and, you know, you go out and you meet new people and you do one new thing a month? What does it mean for you? And I say this for everybody. The more specific you can be, the more you can actually begin to move forward in that direction. Your mind and heart, your consciousness will meet you. Just be very clear exactly what it is that you want to see happen – exactly. I’ll share this quick story. When I went through my first marriage ending, I remember I put together a vision board. And so many of us have seen that from The Secret and many times we think, well, that’s just kind of, you know, silly. But I did it, because I wanted to keep my mind on very specific things in my heart that really matter to me. And one of them was family. And one of the pictures that I had was a picture of a young person with their wife and they were holding actually two twin boys, believe it or not. And I stared at this and stared at this and I worked and I did everything that I was doing in my life trying to move forward, creating something new, and it wasn’t but three and a half to four years later – probably three and a half years later – that we had two twin boys that looked very much like that picture. And it’s kind of funny because I always showed the picture to my wife and she said, ‘Even that person looks kind of like me,’ – the lady in the picture. And, you know, it wasn’t about finding something that fit a mold but your heart and your consciousness move based on very, very specific intuitions and instructions that you have in your essence and you create this blueprint of your reality. So be clear on what it is you want. Much love
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