The Crescent-News • Monday, February 27, 2012
Ask and You Just May Receive
Maybe next time I will tell you about the hundreds (or millions, I can’t say for sure, because at some point I lost count) of birthday cards that arrived this week addressed to me and the “Birthday Boy.” That would be my husband, whose birthday (a big one, as I noted in a recent column) fell 10 days before mine. For now, I just want to thank you for sending all those kind wishes and to assure you that I will personally open and read them all, provided I live, Lord willing, long enough. They were deeply appreciated by both my husband and me, if not so much by certain postal workers, who had every right to curse Sharon my name as they randall kept stuffing them into my box. (Note: My husband thinks it would be fun to post a photo on my website of me buried in a big pile of birthday cards. What do you think? I think maybe he needs to get out more often.) Birthday wishes and thanks aside, I want to get something off my chest, and I don’t mean a pile of greeting cards. Included in the birthday mail was a letter from a woman who said she had led an interesting life, and wondered if I would help her write her life story. That was not unusual. I often get such requests. It’s an honor to think someone would trust me to write his or her life story. (I also receive a steady flow of self-published memoirs that I unfortunately will never be able to read, edit, comment on in any way, or return.) But my standard reply to such requests is that, as much as I’d like to help, I have stories of my own to tell and too little time to tell them. People always seem to understand that. But it never stops me from feeling as if I’ve somehow let them down. I hate letting people down. My children say I worry too much about what people think. I don’t think so. What do you think? Anyhow, I wasn’t bothered by the woman’s request. What bothered me was the irony of what happened as I read it. I have a weekly ritual: After picking up a batch of reader mail at the post office, I like to take it to a restaurant, spread it out on the table and read all I can over lunch. The servers give me funny looks that make me wonder if they’ve been talking to the postal workers. Whatever. Just as I finished the letter from the reader who asked for help telling her stories, I noticed a couple at a booth nearby. He was talking. She was listening. When he’d stop to take a bite, she’d begin to speak. Then he’d swallow, cut her off, and start talking again. This went on for 40 minutes. She seldom got to finish a sentence. He never asked her a question. Doesn’t he know, I thought, that she has stories, too? As they rose to go, he helped her into her coat and took her arm. Passing my table, they smiled and I smiled back. Watching them leave, I wondered: Were they in love? Were they happy? They certainly seemed close. Sometimes the people we’re closest to are the hardest, in some ways, for us to see. The person you married years ago. The brother who never has much to say. The friend who’s always there if you need her. The grandpa who once fought for his country and now fights just to stay awake. The good little girl who worries too much about what people think. We all have stories that tell who we are, what we love and hate and fear and hope, things we’re willing to live and die for. To love someone is to want to hear all their stories, and to be blessed to tell yours in return. Whose stories haven’t you heard? Don’t assume you know them. Keep asking questions. The answers may surprise you. (Sharon Randall can be reached at P.O. Box 777394, Henderson, Nev. 89077, or a www.sharonrandall.com)
• Defiance County Council agenda: Defiance City Council will consider six legislative items during its meeting Tuesday at 7:30 p.m. in the city service building, 631 Perry St. Scheduled for second readings is an amended reading is an emergency ordinance vacating Gorman Street and part of the intersecting alley, and an ordinance vacating the southeasterly end of Gorman Street. Scheduled for first readings are three separate emergency ordinances approving EMS contracts with Defiance, Noble and Tiffin townships and a resolution expressing support for the city’s application for a grant to fund the study a possible water line between Defiance and Napoleon.
People & Places Northwest Ohio news from Crescent-News staff and wire reports
Book signing: Wauseon
• Police
• Putnam County Parenting program: The Lisa Nicely/C-N Photo
St. Mary’s Catholic Church, Defiance, will host its annual parish retreat on March 16-17. This year’s theme is “Strength for the Journey.” The retreat is designed to have participants reflect on their personal relationship with Christ and their involvement in the life of their church community. For more information, call the parish office at 419-782-2776. Making plans are leader Paula DeCola, co-leader Adam Shafer (center) and Father Randy Giesige, spiritual leader.
native Jeffrey Spieles has written a stirring novel set during the Civil War and will be at the Fulton County Museum in Wauseon to sign copies from 2-4 p.m. March 10. In Sherman’s Path, published by Royal Fireworks Press of
For
State Patrol
Saturday, 2:15 p.m., on U.S. 127, south of Fountain Road in the village of Sherwood, a vehicle driven by Muath Salem, 34, Troy, Mich., attempted to make a u-turn and struck a yard on the southwest side of the intersection. Salem then left the scene. There was no damage to the vehicle. Salem was cited for failure to drived in marked lanes. Sunday, 9:10 a.m., on Ohio 34 in Williams County’s Center Township, an eastbound vehicle driven by Phillip Stambaugh, 54, Bryan, struck a deer. Damage to the vehicle was light.
Defiance Police
Saturday, a vehicle was reported egged in the 800 block of East Second Street. Saturday, James Curry Jr., 26, Circle Drive, was charged with disorderly conduct while intoxicated after an alleged incident in the 800 block of Deatrick Street. Saturday, Racee May, 19, Anthony Wayne Boulevard, was charged with underage consumption, and Xavier Esparza, 18, Summit Street, was charged with possession of marijuana and possession of drug paraphernalia following a traffic stop at Sessions Avenue Sunday, a bicycle was reported stolen in the 800 block of Ottawa Avenue. Sunday, Benjamin Mendez, 30, Edgerton, was cited for OVI following a crash at Clinton and First streets. Sunday, employees at Mike’s Marathon, South Clinton Street, report a gas drive-off. Sunday, a garage was reported vandalized in the 800 block of Holgate Avenue. Sunday, a vehicle was reported vandalized in the 500 block of Pearl Street.
Defiance Sheriff
Sunday, 8:27 p.m., on Ohio 18, west of Rosebrook Road in Delaware Township, a vehicle driven by Thomas Yanez, 70, Hicksville, struck a deer. Damage to the vehicle was light. Sunday, 8:42 p.m., on Bowman Road, west of Fullmer Road in Highland Township, a vehicle driven by Rayne Rayle, 19, 431 Walnut St., struck a deer. Damage to the vehicle was light. Saturday, Edwin Kimmel III, 31, Defiance, was arrested on a warrant from Defiance Municipal Court. Sunday, Michael Williams, 26, Defiance, was cited for OVI and failure to drive in marked lanes fol-
Dear residents,
Sponsored by the Wauseon Public Library and the Fulton County Historical Society, the reception and book signing will include the exhibit opening of the museum’s 1862 version of “Hell & Homefront : Civil War Through Fulton County Eyes.” The Fulton County Museum is located at 229 Monroe St.
reports
Saturday, 1:50 a.m., on Williams County Road K, west of County Road 15 in Jefferson Township, an eastbound vehicle driven by Ryan Hepker, 26, Montpelier, struck a ditch and overturned. Damage to the vehicle was moderate. Hepker was cited for failure to control.
Residents Six-county area
Yours truly, Anthony Wayne Jr.
Fun night: The Henry
• Fulton County
Intercepted Letter
Be sure to take the time necessary to study the candidates and the issues before voting. The ignorance of even one voter in a democracy impairs the security for everyone.
Parish retreat
• Henry County County Farm Bureau will be holding a local fun night for members and their families on Saturday. This fun night is open to all Fulton, Henry, Williams, and Defiance county Farm Bureau members. Admission is free. The Henry County fun night will be from 6-10 p.m. at the Napoleon High School. Sausage, hamburgers, and hot dogs will be served. Activities for the events include swimming, volleyball, and basketball, cards and family games. Doors open at 6 p.m., and dinner will be at 6:30 p.m. For more information or driving directions call the Farm Bureau office at 419-445-0723 or 800-783-2873.
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people & places
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lowing a traffic stop on Kiser Road. Sunday, Jacob Sproul, 20, Oakwood, was arrested on a warrant from Defiance Municipal Court. Sunday, Scott Cole, 43, Toledo, was arrested on a warrant from Defiance Common Pleas Court. Sunday, Tyler Smith, 21, Fayette, was arrested on a warrant from Defiance Municipal Court.
Napoleon Police
Friday, officer investigated a report of an individual disseminating harmful matter at Central Middle School. Friday, officers investigated a report of a rape. The report was taken at the Napoleon Police Department. Saturday, Jason Horner, 34, Napoleon, was charged with domestic violence after an alleged incident at 1039 Scott St. Ottawa Police Sunday, 12:47 a.m., at Ohio 65 and U.S. 224 in Ottawa, a southbound vehicle driven by John Stevens, 31, Leipsic, struck a stop light pole. Stevens was extricated from the vehicle by the Ottawa Fire Department and transported by air ambulance to St. Rita’s Medical Center, Lima, where was listed in fair condition. His passengers, Carissa Vogt, 29, of Ottawa, and Mariah Eitemiller, 21, Fort Jennings, were also transported to St. Rita’s Medical Center. Vogt was listed in fair condition while Eitemiller was treated and released. The Putnam County Sheriff’s Office, Glandorf Police Department, Ottawa, Kalida and Columbus Grove EMS also assisted at the scene. The crash remains under investigation. Damage was heavy to the vehicle.
Williams Sheriff
Sunday, Kara Jackson, 21, Edon, was charged with domestic violence and taken to the Corrections Center of Northwest Ohio, rural Stryker.
Bryan Police
Friday, Tammy Ott, 27, Bryan, was arrested on a bench warrant from Fulton County. Friday, Dena Reynolds, 37, Bryan, was charged with corrupting another with drugs, a thirddegree felony. Reynolds was taken to CCNO. Saturday, Trisha Lane, 26, Bryan, was charged with theft and contributing to the delinquency of a minor. Saturday, Tyler Smith, 21, Pioneer, was arrested on warrants from Defiance and Henry counties. He was taken to CCNO.
• Court
New York, is his first novel. The novel tells the story of 12-year-old orphan, Henry Atkinson, who lives in Georgia during the time of Union General William T. Sherman’s March to the Sea from Atlanta to Savannah.
results
Defiance Municipal Court
Ryan Pike, 21, 1400 Hopkins St., was bound over to Defiance County Common Pleas Court after he waived a preliminary hearing on a charge of burglary, a seconddegree felony.
Cases set for pretrial hearing: Michael Moser, 32, Bryan, driving under suspension, fictitious plates; George Castillo, 51, 11221/2 Latty St., OVI, driving under suspension, expired plates; Ralph Pisani Jr., 47, Monroe, speed; Daniel Alvarado, 53, 1400 Milwaukee Ave., driving under suspension, no safety belt; Matthew Vasquez, 27, 22607 Defiance-Paulding County Line Road, driving under suspension; Jodi Perl, 27, Paulding, possession of drugs; Kenneth Patierno, 24, 1516 Terrawenda Drive, theft; Case set for trial: Christie Bowen, 28, Scottsdale, Ariz., speed. Forfeiting bond: Justin Adams, 28, Bryan, hunting without a permit, $150. Sentenced: Bruce Lee Jr., 30, 415 Auglaize St., possession of drug paraphernalia, $250 fine, 30 days jail suspended; Jorge Tenorio, 33, 1610 Palmer Drive, possession of drug paraphernalia, dismissed; Terry Veres Jr., 34, Edgerton, possession of drug paraphernalia, dismissed; Gregory Miller, 49, 26645 Elizabeth St., assured clear distance; Steven Resendez, 23, 2092 Royal Oak, driving under suspension, $150 fine; Linda Owens, 31, 700 Kiser Road, obstructing official business, $250 fine, 30 days jail suspended.
• On
the market
Daily Grain Prices (as of 8 a.m.) Wheat.......................................6.46 Corn.........................................6.39 Beans.....................................12.56
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Incredible Years, a free program for parents, grandparents and caregivers of children ages birth to 8 years old, will be held every Tuesday for 10 weeks, starting on March 6 at the Putnam County Educational Center, Ottawa. The program will take place from 6-8 p.m. Free child care will be provided on-site for all children ages 6 weeks old or older. A free family-style meal will be held 30 minutes prior to the program. Registration is required by March 2 by calling the Putnam County Educational Service Center at 419-523-5951, ext. 3023. Space is limited. The program is sponsored by Project SAFE. 76-78-79.
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• On
this date
Today is Monday, Feb. 27, the 58th day of 2012. There are 308 days left in the year. Today’s Highlight in History: On Feb. 27, 1942, the Battle of the Java Sea began during World War II; Imperial Japanese naval forces scored a decisive victory over the Allies. On this date: In 1801, the District of Columbia was placed under the jurisdiction of Congress. In 1911, inventor Charles F. Kettering demonstrated his electric automobile starter in Detroit by starting a Cadillac’s motor with just the press of a switch, instead of hand-cranking. In 1912, author Lawrence Durrell, author of The Alexandria Quartet, was born in India. In 1922, the Supreme Court, in Leser v. Garnett, unanimously upheld the 19th Amendment to the Constitution, which guaranteed the right of women to vote. In 1933, Germany’s parliament building, the Reichstag, was gutted by fire. Chancellor Adolf Hitler, blaming the Communists, used the fire as justification for suspending civil liberties. In 1939, the Supreme Court, in National Labor Relations Board v. Fansteel Metallurgical Corp., outlawed sit-down strikes. In 1960, the U.S. Olympic hockey team defeated the Soviets, 3-2, at the Winter Games in Squaw Valley, Calif. (The U.S. team went on to win the gold medal.) In 1973, members of the American Indian Movement occupied the hamlet of Wounded Knee in South Dakota, the site of the 1890 massacre of Sioux men, women and children. (The occupation lasted until May.) In 1979, Jane M. Byrne confounded Chicago’s Democratic political machine as she upset Mayor Michael A. Bilandic to win their party’s mayoral primary. (Byrne went on to win the election.)
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