Secrets Of The “Naturals”: How Those Always-Gets-Girls Guys Get The Hottest Girls, And How You Can Too! Hosted by:
ROSS JEFFRIES Founder, Speed Seduction® http://www.seduction.com/
Who Is Ross Jeffries? • Created Speed Seduction® in 1988 (25+ yrs/going strong) • Has helped over 10,000 smart guys through coaching and live training • Published several books and training courses
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What Is A “Natural”? Someone who has done well with women for most of his life, with very little effort. • • • •
No dry spells No settling No chasing No efforts to make an impression
Not dependent on:
• Looks • Money • Social status
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Not the same as “jerk” While their may be some overlap, naturals actually: • Like women • Enjoy women as people • Don’t have cruel or vicious intent • 100% non-violent
Natural Secret #1 Naturals never see “failure” or over-analyze
If something doesn’t work out, they usually Just shrug their shoulders and move on to the next girl. It’s the “WOMAN’S” job to worry about what happened.
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Natural Secret #2: Naturals know that “looks” are in what the woman sees.
Naturals Secret #3 Natural’s don’t fight themselves; when they move they are not self-conflicted.
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Naturals Secret #4 Naturals have just two or three “approaches” they do well At whatever stage, from opening to sex, they don’t have a wide variety of things they do. Just a few things they do well.
Naturals Secret #5 Naturals know their “market”. Naturals know the demographic and the psychological make up of the women with whom they are good at pulling. They test for this early on and eliminate those who don’t fit.
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Naturals Secret #6 Naturals never attempt to “make the sale”. Rather, they are the brand women want to buy. (Don’t chase and don’t attempt to impress)
Naturals Secret #7 Naturals don’t have to win Naturals know that no matter how skilled you are, there is always a large element of randomness and chaos with women and circumstances beyond their control. They understand that and are good with it.
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Naturals Secret #8 Naturals care…but not very much.
Another way to put this: naturals are interested in the girl, but invested in their skills.
Naturals Secret #9 Naturals don’t take what women say at face value.
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Naturals Secret #10 Naturals are not in the least bit shy about sexually escalating.
Naturals Secret #11 Naturals know challenge is where the power is. 1. Don’t over-validate 2. Don’t always respond 3. Selectively reinforce
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Naturals Secret #12 Natural’s know “bore-friends” often mean next to nothing/the “Monkey Branch” theory
Naturals Secret #13
Naturals Call A Woman On Bullshit, In The Right Way, At The Right Time And Place
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Naturals Secret #14
Naturals are willing to walk away
And Now, A Few Questions…
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