STOP CARING WHAT OTHERS THINK OF YOU - GO DO!
www.bulletproofactor.com
www.actonthis.tv
PLEASE SHARE THIS SCOPE!
CLICK THE 3 DOTS
CLICK ‘SHARE’
AND SHARE…
I FEEL WE ARE IN THE MIDST OF AN EPIDEMIC OF NEGATIVE ‘FORTUNE TELLING’ (PREDICTING A NEGATIVE OUTCOME!) ACTORS, AND HUMAN BEINGS IN GENERAL, HAVE NEVER BEEN MORE FEARFUL OF THE OPINIONS OF INDUSTRY FOLK, THAT THEY DON’T EVEN KNOW, ALONG WITH RANDOM PEOPLE ONLINE. ACTORS ARE STIFLING THEIR CREATIVITY, HIDING IT FROM THE WORLD - AND CRIPPLING THEIR SUCCESS - BY NOT PUTTING THEMSELVES AND THEIR WORK OUT THERE!
IF YOU ARE NOT UTILISING THE GREATEST MARKETING PLATFORM ON THE PLANET (THE INTERNET) - TO PUSH YOUR LIFE AND CAREER FURTHER - YOU HAVE ALREADY LOST FOLKS. ARGUE ALL YOU WANT, BUT THE MARKET’S ATTENTION IS NOW ONLINE. WHY ARE YOU CHOOSING TO ALLOW THE OPINIONS OF PEOPLE YOU DON’T EVEN KNOW, TO STOP YOU FROM LIVING A FULL LIFE AND CAREER?
#REALTALK YOU MUST STOP CARING ABOUT THE BULLSH*T OPINIONS OF OTHERS, BEFORE THE INDUSTRY WILL CARE ABOUT YOU!
1. ACCEPT YOURSELF FOR WHO YOU ARE! TRUST ME, THE FASTEST WAY TO FAIL, IS TO CONSTANTLY FOCUS ON WHAT YOU ARE NOT.
QUIT WISHING YOU WERE TALLER, BETTERLOOKING, SMARTER, RICHER… OR ANY OTHER NONSENSE WE CAN SO EASILY OBSESS ABOUT.
INSTEAD FOCUS ON YOUR STRENGTHS. WHAT DO YOU HAVE TO OFFER THIS WORLD THAT NO ONE ELSE DOES?
IF YOU’VE GOT A FLARE FOR IMPROVISATION, PULL OUT YOUR PHONE, LAUNCH THE FACEBOOK APP AND GO LIVE - I DARE YOU!
WILL YOU PLEASE EVERYONE? NO, OF COURSE NOT - BUT BY PUTTING YOURSELF OUT THERE, YOU ARE BOUND TO PLEASE SOMEONE! YOU DON’T KNOW WHO THAT MIGHT BE, OR WHERE IT MIGHT LEAD. BY HIDING AWAY, YOU’LL PLEASE NO ONE AND ROB YOURSELF OF UNLIMITED OPPORTUNITIES.
#REALTALK WINNERS FOCUS ON WINNING - LOSERS FOCUS ON WINNERS!
2. DEPLOY POSITIVE ‘FORTUNE TELLING’ FORTUNE TELLING CAN WORK IN YOUR FAVOUR.
POSITIVE FORTUNE TELLING, OR ‘VISUALISATION’, HAS BEEN PROVEN TIME AND TIME AGAIN TO CONTRIBUTE GREATLY TOWARDS GOAL-ACHIEVEMENT.
RATHER THAN PREDICTING NEGATIVE OUTCOMES, VISUALISE YOURSELF SUCCEEDING.
THE MORE YOU CAN GET USED TO EXPECTING POSITIVE OUTCOMES, THE MORE POSITIVE OUTCOMES YOU ARE GOING TO HAVE.
RECORD-BREAKING ATHLETES HAVE HARNESSED THE POWER OF VISUALISATION TO PUSH THE HUMAN BODY BEYOND ITS PERCEIVED LIMITS. YOU’VE GOT NO EXCUSE NOT TO USE IT TO PUT A NEW SHOWREEL SCENE OUT ON INSTAGRAM!
IF AN OUTCOME DOESN’T GO ACCORDING TO PLAN, TRY TO LEARN FROM IT INSTEAD OF GETTING EMBARRASSED. WRITE DOWN WHAT YOU WOULD DO DIFFERENTLY NEXT TIME, TO HELP SOLIDIFY WHAT YOU HAVE LEARNED. REMEMBER - AS LONG AS YOUR ARE LEARNING, YOU ARE SUCCEEDING! NO ONE GETS EVERYTHING RIGHT 100% OF THE TIME, ESPECIALLY NOT ON THEIR FIRST ATTEMPT. JUST FALL IN LOVE WITH THE PROCESS!
3. STOP SECOND-GUESSING! THIS IS CRITICAL. TRY NOT TO ASSUME THAT EVERYONE IS JUDGING EVERY LITTLE THING YOU DO. IN REALITY THEY REALLY AREN’T. THE TRUTH IS THAT MOST PEOPLE ARE SO CAUGHT UP IN THEIR OWN WORLDS, THAT THEY DON’T HAVE TIME TO CONTINUOUSLY FOCUS ON YOU.
BEFORE GETTING LOST IN A CYCLE OF SELFDOUBT, REMIND YOURSELF THAT ANYONE WORTH YOUR TIME HAS MORE TO WORRY ABOUT THAN CRITICISING YOUR EVERY THOUGHT AND ACTION. DO YOUR BEST TO NOTICE WHEN YOU START TO OVERTHINK OR SECOND GUESS YOURSELF. IF YOU CAN BECOME AWARE OF WHEN YOU ARE SECOND-GUESSING YOURSELF, YOU CAN STOP THAT CYCLE IN ITS TRACKS.
WHAT ARE YOU GOING TO REGRET MORE, WHEN YOU ARE SAT THERE AT 92 YEARS OLD?
THAT YOU GAVE IT YOUR ALL, THREW YOUR HAT INTO THE RING, WENT FOR IT, AND DIDN’T PLEASE EVERYONE - OR THAT YOU STOOD BACK, KEPT YOUR CREATIVITY HIDDEN FROM THE WORLD, DID NOTHING WITH YOUR TALENT AND BY DEFAULT PLEASED NO ONE BECAUSE NOBODY EVEN KNEW YOU EXISTED?
I KNOW WHICH I’D REGRET MORE - SO TAKE THIS MESSAGE, GET OUT INTO THE WORLD, SHOW THEM WHO YOU REALLY ARE - BECAUSE RIGHT NOW, THE ONLY PERSON STOPPING YOU FROM HAVING SUCCESS IS YOURSELF.
LET’S END ON THIS… “Believe in yourself and there will come a day when others will have no choice but to believe with you.”
- Cynthia Kersey
JOIN ME NEXT TIME ON PERISCOPE… MONDAYS (9PM GMT) - MOTIVATION & MIND HACKS WEDNESDAYS (9PM GMT) - #BOOKCLUB FOLLOW ME ON PERISCOPE, INSTAGRAM & TWITTER! @ActOnThisTV