Week1
Become a Relationship Alchemist: The 5 Ingredients to Create Amazing Relationships! Week 1
Your Presenter: Amanda Butler
Why I Love to Teach This Course!
Housekeeping How the teleseminar system works
Where/how to downloads recordings, PDFs and course book Interactive teaching and only one coach – ME! Maximizing your shifts with sharing and participation Confidentiality – what happens here, stays here – agreed? Come from my experience – take what works for you!
What Are Your Intentions for This Webinar Series?
Imagine … Creating Amazing Relationships With Who & What in All Aspects of Your Life! Imagine it to ‘Be’ Easy & Graceful!
Here’s What We’re Going to Do & ‘Be’ During the Next 4 Weeks … Review the foundational structure of relationships and how they are created Understand the relationship between energy and the co-creative process Learn about energetic patterning and methods to resolve and shift them
Reveal ways to connect and communicate with your Self and others Explore your Inner Family and what each aspect feels and looks like
Become aware of your co-dependent behaviors and how they affect you Identify the 5 Key Ingredients to build sustainable and thriving relationships! Receive the Tools and Strategies to become a Relationship Alchemist so you can co-create successful and Amazing Relationships!
What is The Definition of Relationship? In relation to …
Connected to … In association with …. Involved with ….
Notice the Different Color ‘L’s
What is Alchemy?
Turn Your Common or Base Relationship(s) Into Relationships of GOLD!
What is a Relationship Alchemist?
Fundamental Principles & Understandings
Universal Laws
Every Thing Every One Is Energy!
All Energy Has Energetic Patterns to It!
And It’s All About the Alignment of Energy!
Any Relationship is Every Relationship!
Self to Your Self Self to Others … Spouse, Family, Friends Self to Your Career & Co-Workers Self to Your Purpose & Contribution Self to Your Money & Finances Self to Goals & Dreams
The MOST Important & Foremost Amazing Relationship to Create is With …
You’re the Cake!
There are Essential Ingredients & Tools to Creating a Delicious Cake!
There are Different Patterns & Cakes You Can Choose From …
There are Layers to Your Cake!
And It’s A Matter of How You Create It!
To Co-Create The Results You Desire!
So If You Are Delicious on the ‘Inside’, Then You & All Aspects of Your Life Will Be Delicious on the ‘Outside’!
There are Components to Each of Your Ingredients … Thoughts Feelings Beliefs Which Lead to Your … Decisions Behaviors & Habits Actions Thus … YOUR RESULTS!
Universal Law: Cause & Effect For Every Action, There is a Reaction. (Or Hopefully a Response in Our Case)
“ You can’t change a problem with the same mind that created it.” - Albert Einstein
So What Type of Energy Runs You? What Ingredients Are Part of Your Cake?
FEAR -OR-
LOVE
What Are The Masks You Wear? What Do You Hide Behind?
The Masks Come From Co-Dependency which is based on …
F inding (or False) E vidence that A ppears R eal
What are the Sources of Co-Dependency? Conditioning Programming Past Experiences
which can lead to …
Outdated Belief Systems and ‘Small’ Mindedness Shut Down and Closed Off Energy False Expectations and Goals Attachments to Specific Outcomes Results That You Don’t Like or Don’t Want!
What Kind of Thoughts Do You Have When Operating from Co-Dependency? Judgmental, Criticism & Beat-up
Disempowered Shame & Guilt Blame & Pointing the Finger Denial or Justification The Need to be Right The Need to Know & Control The Need to be Loved, Accepted & Validated
All are Fear Based.
If you live from outside of your Self vs. from the inside, what energetics are being co-created within your mind and heart? Confusion
Indecision Doubts and worry Chaos Drama Power and control struggles Feelings of out of control Low self esteem, self worth and self confidence
None of This Creates Amazing Relationships! So What does????
Imagine …
What Motivates Intra-Dependency?
L iving
O nly V ibrant E nergy
What are the Sources of Intra-Dependency? Connection with Self and the Universe
‘Be’-ing and expressing your ‘True’ Self Living in the Present Moment Expanded Mindfulness and Freedom Energy Openness to Trusting and Receiving Flexibility and Fluidity Willingness to Play Full Out No Matter What Detachment to the Outcome
What Kind of Thoughts Do You Have When Operating from Intra-Dependency? Accepting & understanding
Empowering Joyous Enthusiastic Willing & open Optimistic Faith & Trust Gratitude & Appreciation All are Love Based. Living Only Vibrant Energy!
So how do you get from there to this when Co-Dependency is running your thoughts, feelings, beliefs, decisions which create your behaviors, habits, actions thus your results?
Resolve Your Patterns Once & For All! How?
Awareness. Acceptance. Energetic Re-Patterning.
You Can Only Change Your Self & Your Reactions to Magically Create Your Amazing Relationships!
Next Steps … 1. Write out your Intention(s) for the webinar. 2. Imagine and write down a description of what an Amazing Relationship and what would it look like and feel like. Practice making it visceral for your Self. 3. Take Inventory of the Components of Your Ingredients: What are Your Thoughts, Feelings & Beliefs for the Week with the different aspects of your life? .
Your Presenter: Amanda Butler
Why I Love to Teach This Course!
Housekeeping How the teleseminar system works
Where/how to downloads recordings, PDFs and course book Interactive teaching and only one coach – ME! Maximizing your shifts with sharing and participation Confidentiality – what happens here, stays here – agreed? Come from my experience – take what works for you!
What Are Your Intentions for This Webinar Series?
Imagine … Creating Amazing Relationships With Who & What in All Aspects of Your Life! Imagine it to ‘Be’ Easy & Graceful!
Here’s What We’re Going to Do & ‘Be’ During the Next 4 Weeks … Review the foundational structure of relationships and how they are created Understand the relationship between energy and the co-creative process Learn about energetic patterning and methods to resolve and shift them
Reveal ways to connect and communicate with your Self and others Explore your Inner Family and what each aspect feels and looks like
Become aware of your co-dependent behaviors and how they affect you Identify the 5 Key Ingredients to build sustainable and thriving relationships! Receive the Tools and Strategies to become a Relationship Alchemist so you can co-create successful and Amazing Relationships!
What is The Definition of Relationship? In relation to …
Connected to … In association with …. Involved with ….
Notice the Different Color ‘L’s
What is Alchemy?
Turn Your Common or Base Relationship(s) Into Relationships of GOLD!
What is a Relationship Alchemist?
Fundamental Principles & Understandings
Universal Laws
Every Thing Every One Is Energy!
All Energy Has Energetic Patterns to It!
And It’s All About the Alignment of Energy!
Any Relationship is Every Relationship!
Self to Your Self Self to Others … Spouse, Family, Friends Self to Your Career & Co-Workers Self to Your Purpose & Contribution Self to Your Money & Finances Self to Goals & Dreams
The MOST Important & Foremost Amazing Relationship to Create is With …
You’re the Cake!
There are Essential Ingredients & Tools to Creating a Delicious Cake!
There are Different Patterns & Cakes You Can Choose From …
There are Layers to Your Cake!
And It’s A Matter of How You Create It!
To Co-Create The Results You Desire!
So If You Are Delicious on the ‘Inside’, Then You & All Aspects of Your Life Will Be Delicious on the ‘Outside’!
There are Components to Each of Your Ingredients … Thoughts Feelings Beliefs Which Lead to Your … Decisions Behaviors & Habits Actions Thus … YOUR RESULTS!
Universal Law: Cause & Effect For Every Action, There is a Reaction. (Or Hopefully a Response in Our Case)
“ You can’t change a problem with the same mind that created it.” - Albert Einstein
So What Type of Energy Runs You? What Ingredients Are Part of Your Cake?
FEAR -OR-
LOVE
What Are The Masks You Wear? What Do You Hide Behind?
The Masks Come From Co-Dependency which is based on …
F inding (or False) E vidence that A ppears R eal
What are the Sources of Co-Dependency? Conditioning Programming Past Experiences
which can lead to …
Outdated Belief Systems and ‘Small’ Mindedness Shut Down and Closed Off Energy False Expectations and Goals Attachments to Specific Outcomes Results That You Don’t Like or Don’t Want!
What Kind of Thoughts Do You Have When Operating from Co-Dependency? Judgmental, Criticism & Beat-up
Disempowered Shame & Guilt Blame & Pointing the Finger Denial or Justification The Need to be Right The Need to Know & Control The Need to be Loved, Accepted & Validated
All are Fear Based.
If you live from outside of your Self vs. from the inside, what energetics are being co-created within your mind and heart? Confusion
Indecision Doubts and worry Chaos Drama Power and control struggles Feelings of out of control Low self esteem, self worth and self confidence
None of This Creates Amazing Relationships! So What does????
Imagine …
What Motivates Intra-Dependency?
L iving
O nly V ibrant E nergy
What are the Sources of Intra-Dependency? Connection with Self and the Universe
‘Be’-ing and expressing your ‘True’ Self Living in the Present Moment Expanded Mindfulness and Freedom Energy Openness to Trusting and Receiving Flexibility and Fluidity Willingness to Play Full Out No Matter What Detachment to the Outcome
What Kind of Thoughts Do You Have When Operating from Intra-Dependency? Accepting & understanding
Empowering Joyous Enthusiastic Willing & open Optimistic Faith & Trust Gratitude & Appreciation All are Love Based. Living Only Vibrant Energy!
So how do you get from there to this when Co-Dependency is running your thoughts, feelings, beliefs, decisions which create your behaviors, habits, actions thus your results?
Resolve Your Patterns Once & For All! How?
Awareness. Acceptance. Energetic Re-Patterning.
You Can Only Change Your Self & Your Reactions to Magically Create Your Amazing Relationships!
Next Steps … 1. Write out your Intention(s) for the webinar. 2. Imagine and write down a description of what an Amazing Relationship and what would it look like and feel like. Practice making it visceral for your Self. 3. Take Inventory of the Components of Your Ingredients: What are Your Thoughts, Feelings & Beliefs for the Week with the different aspects of your life? .
