After Honeymoon
Relationship energy – if negativity is what elicits the energy, then ppl are drawn to the that which creates that passion.
Centered – in the absence of ongoing and creative and spontaneous gestures, all that’s left is sex which makes sex “Scratching an itch” and not an expression of closeness One dimensional - When gestures (touching) is only for lovemaking, it becomes rote and expected. Eventually Sex becomes “known and predicatable” Expressing love can be spontaneous and surprising g Expressing vs knowing – we assume they “know” we love them or they “know” we appreciate them.
Paying attention = you care about what your spouse likes and thinks.
I do this in my practice individually, but you don’t need a shrink to create this!!!
Centered – in the absence of ongoing and creative and spontaneous gestures, all that’s left is sex which makes sex “Scratching an itch” and not an expression of closeness One dimensional - When gestures (touching) is only for lovemaking, it becomes rote and expected. Eventually Sex becomes “known and predicatable” Expressing love can be spontaneous and surprising g Expressing vs knowing – we assume they “know” we love them or they “know” we appreciate them.
Paying attention = you care about what your spouse likes and thinks.
I do this in my practice individually, but you don’t need a shrink to create this!!!
