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Do Not Make These 9 Mistakes If You Want A Long Lasting Relationship Lifestyle I am a sucker for romance and have been writing about relationships for quite a while now. And I can’t help but notice common problems that emerge time, and again in the questions, I receive from the readers. No matter what stage of a relationship you are in, most of the issues women face are rooted to the mistakes that either they have committed or their partner. I know a lot of females want ways to strengthen their relationship. I have identified the nine most common or familiar relationship mistakes that most women make, and this makes their relationship weak.
01. Flipping out if he looks or talks to women.
It is a man’s nature to look at other women. Getting on him and arguing shows that you are insecure, which is a huge turn-off for your man. He is with you because he likes you. Don't make him question his choice. If you find yourself getting jealous, sound check in with yourself. If you still feel insecure, there is the trust quotient missing.
02. Respect his personal space.
If he needs time to think, let him spend his time doing that. He knows you love him and that you want him to know that you are there, but giving him his personal space won't hurt you. He will work things out internally, and if not, he will let you know.
03. Don't stop taking care of yourself.
It is saddening that when a girl starts dating or has a boyfriend, she forgets her independent self. Stop sulking or sinking into that puddle of being in a relationship. Stay on point, look gorgeous and take care of yourself. I bet he will love you more like that.
04. Have your own time!
Oh, stop telling yourself you need to be available to him all the time. Go out with your girls, call them in and just have fun. Spend your own time. If not with girls, practice what you love the most.
05. Don't be aggressive.
Men are straightforward beings. If you don't like something, tell them. Do not behave nicely in front of them and then later moping around for him to bring it up again.
06. Stop nagging
Let me tell you; no guys are perfect. Your man might be good at something that you won't find in another man. Do not nag about him not getting you chocolates or flowers. Let him be himself around you. And even if you want something, choose a better way to let him know that.
07. Appreciate/acknowledge him. Do the things he loves.
Stop looking at what he is not able to do. Instead, look at the positive things. Appreciate the little things and let him know that you love him even with all the flaws.
08. Don't try to change him.
When you get into a relationship, you tend to love that person the way he/she is. Do not try to change him over
the duration of your relationship. Remember the first time you met each other. You were fond of each other, right? Don't criticise, tell him if you don't like something.
09. Don't go too fast!
Why do you want to settle down as soon as you get involved with someone? Give each other time, go out, talk often and take things easy. Things worth happening will come your way. Have patience. Don't rush things.
After all, love doesn't have to be hard, it is supposed to be beautiful.
01. Flipping out if he looks or talks to women.
It is a man’s nature to look at other women. Getting on him and arguing shows that you are insecure, which is a huge turn-off for your man. He is with you because he likes you. Don't make him question his choice. If you find yourself getting jealous, sound check in with yourself. If you still feel insecure, there is the trust quotient missing.
02. Respect his personal space.
If he needs time to think, let him spend his time doing that. He knows you love him and that you want him to know that you are there, but giving him his personal space won't hurt you. He will work things out internally, and if not, he will let you know.
03. Don't stop taking care of yourself.
It is saddening that when a girl starts dating or has a boyfriend, she forgets her independent self. Stop sulking or sinking into that puddle of being in a relationship. Stay on point, look gorgeous and take care of yourself. I bet he will love you more like that.
04. Have your own time!
Oh, stop telling yourself you need to be available to him all the time. Go out with your girls, call them in and just have fun. Spend your own time. If not with girls, practice what you love the most.
05. Don't be aggressive.
Men are straightforward beings. If you don't like something, tell them. Do not behave nicely in front of them and then later moping around for him to bring it up again.
06. Stop nagging
Let me tell you; no guys are perfect. Your man might be good at something that you won't find in another man. Do not nag about him not getting you chocolates or flowers. Let him be himself around you. And even if you want something, choose a better way to let him know that.
07. Appreciate/acknowledge him. Do the things he loves.
Stop looking at what he is not able to do. Instead, look at the positive things. Appreciate the little things and let him know that you love him even with all the flaws.
08. Don't try to change him.
When you get into a relationship, you tend to love that person the way he/she is. Do not try to change him over
the duration of your relationship. Remember the first time you met each other. You were fond of each other, right? Don't criticise, tell him if you don't like something.
09. Don't go too fast!
Why do you want to settle down as soon as you get involved with someone? Give each other time, go out, talk often and take things easy. Things worth happening will come your way. Have patience. Don't rush things.
After all, love doesn't have to be hard, it is supposed to be beautiful.
