What Matters Most ebook
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CONGRATULATIONS…
…on downloading this action guide for values–based living. Just doing so shows that you are someone who values your quality of life… Who wants to live in alignment with your priorities… Who recognizes that life can be so chaotic that we must mindfully and proactively protect the time and attention required for what is most important. But it's likely that you may be having a little trouble (or even a lot!) as you navigate this balance. (And if so, you're not alone!). And how does work and career fit into all of this? Most of us would say we are building our businesses for two main reasons: 1) to make a positive impact in other people's lives, and 2) to support our ideal lifestyle based on what we value. In fact, it is the promise of these two outcomes that keeps us pushing forward. But guess what… Some of us have made quite a bit of money – and yet not had a very healthy for satisfying quality of life. Others of us have made much less money – and had a very gratifying and content life experience with a lot of joy.
© 2015 Bright Idea LLC | All Rights Reserved. www.BarbWade.com
So, what gives? The conclusion we’re left to make is that the amount of money we make is less influential with regards to living a richly fulfilling life than we think. Now, let me be clear. I'm all for you making a very abundant amount of money. In fact, that's what I teach people to do every day. And money used well can greatly enhance your quality of life, that's true, and allow you to make an even bigger impact on the world. But the GREAT news is that you have so much more control than you think! There are things that you can do – RIGHT NOW -- to transform your daily joy! The power is truly in your hands. In fact, it's almost like magic! And want to know an interesting “catch” to this all? Believe it or not, the happier and more vibrant your life is, the more business success you'll actually achieve! (It’s true, the more you are coming from a place of love, joy, and well-being, the more you'll actually earn – it's been proven!). So how about it today we talk about catapulting the level of fulfillment and richness in your life in ways that you can do right now? (And again, isn't that what we’re in these businesses for in the first place?).
© 2015 Bright Idea LLC | All Rights Reserved. www.BarbWade.com
Okay, let's go… Let me share a process that I've gone through many times in my life – including just months ago – to help you get clear on what you truly value most. First, I asked myself: “What are the areas of your life that need to be satisfied in some way in order for you to live a vibrant and fulfilling life?” And here's what I came up with in no particular order: Time with the kids (family) Quality time with my husband Tim Physical wellness/health A successful career (both financially + enjoyment) Recreation and Enrichment Community involvement Intellectual development Rich friendships Personal growth Spiritual practice
© 2015 Bright Idea LLC | All Rights Reserved. www.BarbWade.com
So now, I'm going to ask you to do the same. Really imagine yourself at the end of your life looking back – what are the areas of your life that you would greatly regret not attending to? Brain dump them here: ____________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________
© 2015 Bright Idea LLC | All Rights Reserved. www.BarbWade.com
Now, let's take a look at the areas you would say are your top 5 priorities. Don't freak out – I know all of these areas are very significant to you. But let's just say right now, today, you were to choose the five areas in your life that you feel should have the most time and attention based on what matters most to you. Which 5 would those be? List them here: 1. ____________________________________________________ 2. ____________________________________________________ 3. ____________________________________________________ 4. ____________________________________________________ 5. ____________________________________________________
© 2015 Bright Idea LLC | All Rights Reserved. www.BarbWade.com
Great. Now I’d like you to take a few moments to answer the following questions about each of the five priorities you’ve chosen. AREA OF IMPORTANCE: ______________________________ “How is your life doing in this area?” (just allow free-form writing) ____________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________ “What would you rate this area at today, in terms of satisfaction level and involvement, on a scale of 1 – 10?” ____________________________________________________ “If it’s anything less than 8, what would you need to attend to in order to achieve a rating that was 2 – 3 points higher?” ____________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________
© 2015 Bright Idea LLC | All Rights Reserved. www.BarbWade.com
What is standing in the way of your doing this, and how will you overcome it? ____________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________ If you truly want to change your experience of life in this area, you need to do things differently. Brainstorm the specific steps you could take to move you forward here (note, you’re not committing – just exploring). ____________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________ After reflecting, choose up to 3 next steps about which you are the most excited. Or that you know in your gut would really make a difference. And now, I invite you to make up powerful and self-honoring commitment… To YOURSELF.
© 2015 Bright Idea LLC | All Rights Reserved. www.BarbWade.com
I hereby choose to fully commit to the following next steps in support of my authentic priorities and values: ______________________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________________
____________________________
____________________________
Signature
Date
© 2015 Bright Idea LLC | All Rights Reserved. www.BarbWade.com
Now, you’ll need to repeat this process with the other 4 areas of importance that you have chosen. You can use your own notebook or journal, or just reprint pages _______ of this guide. Again, be brutally honest with yourself. The only way we can make change is to first take stock of “what is” before we can transform anything. In fact, with me personally, I wasn’t even truly aware of how things that mattered to me were being compromised in my life as my business grew and grew. It happened slowly… first this thing, then that thing… until it all added up to a “hit myself on the head” realization that I had traveled far off course.
In other words, awareness itself begins the process of change. So go ahead and complete the questions on the additional priorities you selected as part of your top 5 right now. And then meet me back here. :-)
© 2015 Bright Idea LLC | All Rights Reserved. www.BarbWade.com
OK…. So now you’ve had a chance to explore so much: what’s most important to you and why, your satisfaction level in several areas, what would have to change to raise your level of fulfillment and joy, the things that could derail you and how you’re going to overcome those, and what potential next steps you could take. Then… drumroll… you were given a chance to make a firm and powerful commitment to certain next steps that are ultimately aligned with your deepest, most authentic intentions for your life. BRAVO – I acknowledge you. So what now? First, list your commitments in a clear, concise way where you can put them into your calendar, or up on your office wall where you can see them every day. Next, share these commitments joyfully with a handful of loved ones who will support you, cheerlead you, and encourage you on your new path. Then, as you complete each item, CELEBRATE! Give yourself some acknowledgement and appreciation for the ways you are stretching out of your comfort zone and taking the “reins” in creating your experience of your life!
© 2015 Bright Idea LLC | All Rights Reserved. www.BarbWade.com
Finally, you’ll decide when it’s time to add a bunch of NEW next steps to guide you further toward your deepest happiness… you’ll decide what they are, again make a bold commitment to them, and repeat the above process of posting them and sharing them! HOORAY! Following this simple formula has the potential to do nothing short of transforming your entire quality of life on this planet. And we ALL deserve to be balanced, joyful, and inspired -- not only for our own ever-important daily experience, but so that we can spread this LOVE abundantly.
You CAN Create The Perfect Lifestyle – One Where You Are Making A Huge Impact, Earning Great Money, and Having Time And Energy For Your Deepest Priorities! Think it’s impossible? Not only is it possible, but it’s even probable if you know the right steps and strategies, as well as being willing to claim your power to do your business YOUR way!
© 2015 Bright Idea LLC | All Rights Reserved. www.BarbWade.com
My clients are conscious, soul-centered entrepreneurs who learn: How To Consistently Attract Loyal, High-Paying Clients In Ways That Are Authentic And Joyful How To Charge Fees That Are Based On Their True Worth And Value – With No Problem! How To Successfully Sell Their Services Without Being Sales-y or Pushy How To Create Multiple Streams Of Income From Their Expertise (so that they can touch more people) How To Work Less And Actually Make And KEEP More Than Before How To Effectively Balance Their Work With Time And Focus On Their Other Meaningful Priorities How To Earn 6-Figures and More Year After Year... How To Make a Difference – A Real, Measurable One -- Doing What They Love
If this sounds like something you would be interested in achieving, I welcome the opportunity to chat with you. I offer a variety of programs and services that are designed specifically for the unique needs and concerns of today’s Soul-Centered Service Professionals, teaching them the leading-edge strategies and tools to build businesses that serve others and allow them ample time and energy for the lifestyle they’ve always dreamed of.
© 2015 Bright Idea LLC | All Rights Reserved. www.BarbWade.com
From various CLASSES and PROGRAMS to VIP ONE-DAY INTENSIVES to HIGH LEVEL 1:1 + MASTERMIND OPPORTUNITIES to LIVE EVENTS – and more -- I take a no excuses approach in mentoring my clients to achieve their highest potential. I mix a loving, supportive manner with a firm hand when needed… and my clients are my greatest pride and joy. For more information about any of my programs, please contact [email protected] and let’s explore how I might help you create thriving success on YOUR terms! Wishing you The Wealthy Life*,
-Barb Wade Business Coach & Mentor www.BarbWade.com *a wealth of time, impact, income, and freedom
© 2015 Bright Idea LLC | All Rights Reserved. www.BarbWade.com
© 2015 Bright Idea LLC and Barb Wade Coaching. All rights reserved. No part of this publication may be reproduced, stored in a retrieval system, or transmitted in any form, or by any means, electronic, mechanical, photocopying, recorded, scanning, or otherwise, except as permitted under Section 107 or 108 of the 1976 United States Copyright Act, without the prior written permission of the Publisher or Author. Requests to the Author should be addressed to Barb Wade at [email protected]. © 2015 Bright Idea LLC | All Rights Reserved. www.BarbWade.com
© 2015 Bright Idea LLC | All Rights Reserved. www.BarbWade.com
CONGRATULATIONS…
…on downloading this action guide for values–based living. Just doing so shows that you are someone who values your quality of life… Who wants to live in alignment with your priorities… Who recognizes that life can be so chaotic that we must mindfully and proactively protect the time and attention required for what is most important. But it's likely that you may be having a little trouble (or even a lot!) as you navigate this balance. (And if so, you're not alone!). And how does work and career fit into all of this? Most of us would say we are building our businesses for two main reasons: 1) to make a positive impact in other people's lives, and 2) to support our ideal lifestyle based on what we value. In fact, it is the promise of these two outcomes that keeps us pushing forward. But guess what… Some of us have made quite a bit of money – and yet not had a very healthy for satisfying quality of life. Others of us have made much less money – and had a very gratifying and content life experience with a lot of joy.
© 2015 Bright Idea LLC | All Rights Reserved. www.BarbWade.com
So, what gives? The conclusion we’re left to make is that the amount of money we make is less influential with regards to living a richly fulfilling life than we think. Now, let me be clear. I'm all for you making a very abundant amount of money. In fact, that's what I teach people to do every day. And money used well can greatly enhance your quality of life, that's true, and allow you to make an even bigger impact on the world. But the GREAT news is that you have so much more control than you think! There are things that you can do – RIGHT NOW -- to transform your daily joy! The power is truly in your hands. In fact, it's almost like magic! And want to know an interesting “catch” to this all? Believe it or not, the happier and more vibrant your life is, the more business success you'll actually achieve! (It’s true, the more you are coming from a place of love, joy, and well-being, the more you'll actually earn – it's been proven!). So how about it today we talk about catapulting the level of fulfillment and richness in your life in ways that you can do right now? (And again, isn't that what we’re in these businesses for in the first place?).
© 2015 Bright Idea LLC | All Rights Reserved. www.BarbWade.com
Okay, let's go… Let me share a process that I've gone through many times in my life – including just months ago – to help you get clear on what you truly value most. First, I asked myself: “What are the areas of your life that need to be satisfied in some way in order for you to live a vibrant and fulfilling life?” And here's what I came up with in no particular order: Time with the kids (family) Quality time with my husband Tim Physical wellness/health A successful career (both financially + enjoyment) Recreation and Enrichment Community involvement Intellectual development Rich friendships Personal growth Spiritual practice
© 2015 Bright Idea LLC | All Rights Reserved. www.BarbWade.com
So now, I'm going to ask you to do the same. Really imagine yourself at the end of your life looking back – what are the areas of your life that you would greatly regret not attending to? Brain dump them here: ____________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________
© 2015 Bright Idea LLC | All Rights Reserved. www.BarbWade.com
Now, let's take a look at the areas you would say are your top 5 priorities. Don't freak out – I know all of these areas are very significant to you. But let's just say right now, today, you were to choose the five areas in your life that you feel should have the most time and attention based on what matters most to you. Which 5 would those be? List them here: 1. ____________________________________________________ 2. ____________________________________________________ 3. ____________________________________________________ 4. ____________________________________________________ 5. ____________________________________________________
© 2015 Bright Idea LLC | All Rights Reserved. www.BarbWade.com
Great. Now I’d like you to take a few moments to answer the following questions about each of the five priorities you’ve chosen. AREA OF IMPORTANCE: ______________________________ “How is your life doing in this area?” (just allow free-form writing) ____________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________ “What would you rate this area at today, in terms of satisfaction level and involvement, on a scale of 1 – 10?” ____________________________________________________ “If it’s anything less than 8, what would you need to attend to in order to achieve a rating that was 2 – 3 points higher?” ____________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________
© 2015 Bright Idea LLC | All Rights Reserved. www.BarbWade.com
What is standing in the way of your doing this, and how will you overcome it? ____________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________ If you truly want to change your experience of life in this area, you need to do things differently. Brainstorm the specific steps you could take to move you forward here (note, you’re not committing – just exploring). ____________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________ After reflecting, choose up to 3 next steps about which you are the most excited. Or that you know in your gut would really make a difference. And now, I invite you to make up powerful and self-honoring commitment… To YOURSELF.
© 2015 Bright Idea LLC | All Rights Reserved. www.BarbWade.com
I hereby choose to fully commit to the following next steps in support of my authentic priorities and values: ______________________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________________
____________________________
____________________________
Signature
Date
© 2015 Bright Idea LLC | All Rights Reserved. www.BarbWade.com
Now, you’ll need to repeat this process with the other 4 areas of importance that you have chosen. You can use your own notebook or journal, or just reprint pages _______ of this guide. Again, be brutally honest with yourself. The only way we can make change is to first take stock of “what is” before we can transform anything. In fact, with me personally, I wasn’t even truly aware of how things that mattered to me were being compromised in my life as my business grew and grew. It happened slowly… first this thing, then that thing… until it all added up to a “hit myself on the head” realization that I had traveled far off course.
In other words, awareness itself begins the process of change. So go ahead and complete the questions on the additional priorities you selected as part of your top 5 right now. And then meet me back here. :-)
© 2015 Bright Idea LLC | All Rights Reserved. www.BarbWade.com
OK…. So now you’ve had a chance to explore so much: what’s most important to you and why, your satisfaction level in several areas, what would have to change to raise your level of fulfillment and joy, the things that could derail you and how you’re going to overcome those, and what potential next steps you could take. Then… drumroll… you were given a chance to make a firm and powerful commitment to certain next steps that are ultimately aligned with your deepest, most authentic intentions for your life. BRAVO – I acknowledge you. So what now? First, list your commitments in a clear, concise way where you can put them into your calendar, or up on your office wall where you can see them every day. Next, share these commitments joyfully with a handful of loved ones who will support you, cheerlead you, and encourage you on your new path. Then, as you complete each item, CELEBRATE! Give yourself some acknowledgement and appreciation for the ways you are stretching out of your comfort zone and taking the “reins” in creating your experience of your life!
© 2015 Bright Idea LLC | All Rights Reserved. www.BarbWade.com
Finally, you’ll decide when it’s time to add a bunch of NEW next steps to guide you further toward your deepest happiness… you’ll decide what they are, again make a bold commitment to them, and repeat the above process of posting them and sharing them! HOORAY! Following this simple formula has the potential to do nothing short of transforming your entire quality of life on this planet. And we ALL deserve to be balanced, joyful, and inspired -- not only for our own ever-important daily experience, but so that we can spread this LOVE abundantly.
You CAN Create The Perfect Lifestyle – One Where You Are Making A Huge Impact, Earning Great Money, and Having Time And Energy For Your Deepest Priorities! Think it’s impossible? Not only is it possible, but it’s even probable if you know the right steps and strategies, as well as being willing to claim your power to do your business YOUR way!
© 2015 Bright Idea LLC | All Rights Reserved. www.BarbWade.com
My clients are conscious, soul-centered entrepreneurs who learn: How To Consistently Attract Loyal, High-Paying Clients In Ways That Are Authentic And Joyful How To Charge Fees That Are Based On Their True Worth And Value – With No Problem! How To Successfully Sell Their Services Without Being Sales-y or Pushy How To Create Multiple Streams Of Income From Their Expertise (so that they can touch more people) How To Work Less And Actually Make And KEEP More Than Before How To Effectively Balance Their Work With Time And Focus On Their Other Meaningful Priorities How To Earn 6-Figures and More Year After Year... How To Make a Difference – A Real, Measurable One -- Doing What They Love
If this sounds like something you would be interested in achieving, I welcome the opportunity to chat with you. I offer a variety of programs and services that are designed specifically for the unique needs and concerns of today’s Soul-Centered Service Professionals, teaching them the leading-edge strategies and tools to build businesses that serve others and allow them ample time and energy for the lifestyle they’ve always dreamed of.
© 2015 Bright Idea LLC | All Rights Reserved. www.BarbWade.com
From various CLASSES and PROGRAMS to VIP ONE-DAY INTENSIVES to HIGH LEVEL 1:1 + MASTERMIND OPPORTUNITIES to LIVE EVENTS – and more -- I take a no excuses approach in mentoring my clients to achieve their highest potential. I mix a loving, supportive manner with a firm hand when needed… and my clients are my greatest pride and joy. For more information about any of my programs, please contact [email protected] and let’s explore how I might help you create thriving success on YOUR terms! Wishing you The Wealthy Life*,
-Barb Wade Business Coach & Mentor www.BarbWade.com *a wealth of time, impact, income, and freedom
© 2015 Bright Idea LLC | All Rights Reserved. www.BarbWade.com
© 2015 Bright Idea LLC and Barb Wade Coaching. All rights reserved. No part of this publication may be reproduced, stored in a retrieval system, or transmitted in any form, or by any means, electronic, mechanical, photocopying, recorded, scanning, or otherwise, except as permitted under Section 107 or 108 of the 1976 United States Copyright Act, without the prior written permission of the Publisher or Author. Requests to the Author should be addressed to Barb Wade at [email protected]. © 2015 Bright Idea LLC | All Rights Reserved. www.BarbWade.com
© 2015 Bright Idea LLC | All Rights Reserved. www.BarbWade.com
