Answering the following questions will help you along the path to developing your ability to get others to listen when you talk.
1. What could you do today to be more charismatic? List at least 5 things. _______________________________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________________________
2. How well do you maintain eye contact when speaking to others? Is it too much or too little? Does it vary depending on the conversation? _______________________________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________________________
3. Are you a good listener? Does the person speaking think you're a good listener? What could you do to communicate that you think they’re interesting and that you’re listening to them? _______________________________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________________________
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4. What are 5 affirmations you could use to strengthen your ability to get others to listen to you? _______________________________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________________________
5. With whom could you practice mirroring today? _______________________________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________________________
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6. How can I measure my progress? _______________________________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________________________
7. How would it improve my life if I could consistently get others to listen to me? __________________________________________________________________________ __________________________________________________________________________ __________________________________________________________________________ __________________________________________________________________________ __________________________________________________________________________ __________________________________________________________________________