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MONTHLY     JOURNAL  OF     IAAP  TIDEWATER   CHAPTER  

F E B R U A R Y   2 0 1 3  

Tidewater  Times   this  issue  

Board  of  Directors  

3UHVLGHQW¶V0HVVDJHP.1   Are  You  Sold  Yet?    P.2  

President   Nancy  Moore   [email protected]  

9DOHQWLQH¶V'D\#WKH2IILFHP.3   Eye  on  Membership    P.4  

President  Elect   Vacant   Vice  President   Vacant   Secretary   Carleen  Muncy,  BA,  CAP   [email protected]   Treasurer   Lisa  Carter   [email protected]   Assistant  Treasurer   Delicia  Barber   [email protected]   Parliamentary  Advisor   Debbi  Haddaway   [email protected]       Chapter  meetings  are  held  the  3rd   Tuesday  of  every  month  from     5:30-­8:30  pm  at  Hampton  Roads   Transit  in  Norfolk,  VA.  (unless   scheduled  otherwise)   Stay  connected:   International  website   www.iaap-­hq.org   VA-­WV  Division  website   www.iaap-­va-­wv.org   Tidewater  Chapter  website   www.iaap-­tidewater.org  

3UHVLGHQW¶V0HVVDJH   by  Nancy  Moore,  President   IAAP-­Tidewater  Chapter    

This  month  I  am  highlighting  a  portion  of  ARTICLE  III-­‐-­‐OFFICERS,   QUALIFICATIONS,  NOMINATION  AND  ELECTION,  TERM  AND  DU-­‐ TIES.  Additional  information  may  be  found  in  the  Chapter  bylaws.  I   hope  that  everyone  will  review  the  bylaws  and  consider  running   for  the  2013-­‐2014  Board  of  Directors.       Section  1.    Officers.  The  chapter  officers  shall  be:  president,  presi-­‐ dent-­‐elect,  vice  president,  secretary,  treasurer,  and   assistant  treasurer.   Section  2.    Qualifications.   A.   A  candidate  for  office  shall  have  been  a  professional  or  profes-­‐ sional-­‐merited  member  of  this  chapter  for  at  least  one  year   prior  to  the  time  of  nomination,  and  shall  have  served  as  a   chapter  committee  chair.   B.   A  candidate  for  the  office  of  president  shall  have  served  as  an   officer  of  this  chapter  at  least  one  full  year,  preferably  one  of   these  years  as  president-­‐elect,  prior  to  the  time  of  election.  

C.   A  candidate  for  the  office  of  president-­‐elect  shall  have  prefera-­‐ bly  served  as  an  officer  of  this  chapter  at  least  one  full  year   prior  to  nomination.   D.   No  member  shall  hold  more  than  one  chapter  office  at  a  time.   No  member  shall  hold  a  division  office,  serve  as  a  division   committee  chair,  or  serve  on  an  international  department  or   committee,  while  serving  as  a  chapter  officer,  except  to  allow   for  a  normal  overlap  in  difference  of  installation  time.   I  want  members  to  know  how  important  it  is  to  have  a  full  func-­‐ tioning  Board  of  Directors.    As  some  of  you  know,  we  have  been   two  positions  short  for  the  2012-­‐2013  term.    While  the  current   Board  members  have  done  a  great  job,  it  has  been  a  challenge    for   us  to  take  up  the  slack  since  everyone  has  busy  schedules.    I  hope   members  will  consider  running  for  one  of  the  positions.    This   month  I  will  review    the  duties  of  the  Assistant  Treasurer,  Treasurer   and  Secretary.       Assistant  Treasurer  assists  the  Treasurer  and  assumes  the  duties  of   that  office  in  the  absence  of  the  Treasurer.    The  Assistant  Treasurer   is  the  person  that  collects  the  dinner  fees  and  maintains  atten-­‐ dance  at  each  meeting.    They  are  responsible  for  notifying  the   Board  of  Directors  of  members  that  miss  meetings,  collect  money   from  those  that  make  reservations,  and  other  duties  that  might  be   assigned  by  the  Board  of  Directors.    They  are  essentially  the   greeter  at  the  meetings.    I  found  when  I  served  in  this  capacity  it   was  a  wonderful  way  to  get  to  know  members  and  guests.       Treasurer  is  the  keeper  of  all  chapter  funds,  makes  disbursements   as  authorized  by  the  chapter.    The  Treasurer  pays  all  chapter  ap-­‐ proved  bills,  keeps  the  books  current,  prepares  monthly  reports  for   the    chapter  and  helps  prepare    two  yearly  audits  for  the  Financial   Review  Committee.    The  Treasurer  also  ensures  that  all  insurance   premiums  are  paid  and  IRS  forms  are  filed.    When  the  Chapter   receives  new  member  applications  and  membership  dues,  the   information  is  forwarded  to  International  Headquarters  and  to  the   Virginia-­‐West  Virginia  Division  treasurer.      The  Treasurer  prepares   and  presents  the  annual  proposed  budget  to  the  Board  and  Chap-­‐ ter  at  the  July  Chapter  meeting  and  any  other  duties  that  might  be   assigned  by  the  Board  of  Directors.       Secretary  records  the  minutes  of  all  monthly  Chapter  and  Board   meetings.    The  Secretary  has  custody  of  the  Chapter  Charter  and   other  official  documents,  and  also  ensures  that  all  Chapter  corre-­‐ spondence  is  maintained.    The  Secretary  is  also  a  crucial  part  of   promoting  the  certification  program.    They  encourage  participation   and  provide  assistance  with  review  courses,  orders  name  badges   for  chapter  members  who  attain  the  CAP  or   CAP-­‐OM  designation,  and  any  other  duties   that  might  be  assigned  by  the  Board  of  Direc-­‐ tors.    Continued  on  page    4    

Our  Members   MEMBERSHIP   Members  as  of  January  1    =  77   Members  as  of  February  1    =    84  

BIRTHDAYS   02/01  ±  Lisa  Carter   02/03  ±  Carleen  Muncy,  CAP   02/06  ±  Judith  Feld   02/08  ±  Teresa  Peebles   02/15  ±  Tonya  Manning,  CAP   02/15  ±  Sandra  Simpson   02/19  ±  Effi  Vakalou   03/03  ±  Linda  Wier   03/13  ±  Regina  Harris,  CAP   03/27  ±  Meghan  Higgins   03/29  ±  Judy  Hines,  CAP-­OM  

Sold  on  Member  of  Excellence-­Part  7   Are  You  Sold  Yet?   by  Debbi  Haddaway  

>Ğƚ͛ƐƌĞǀŝĞǁƚŚĞDĞŵďĞƌŽĨdžĐĞůͲ lence  qualifications.    A  Member  of   Excellence  will  receive  a  certificate   the  first  four  years  of  achieving  this   goal  and  on  the  fifth  year  they  will   also  receive  a  Member  of  Excellence   pin.    This  is  in  addition  to  chapter,   division,  and  International  recogni-­‐ tion  at  our  annual  meetings.    A  Mem-­‐ ber  of  Excellence  will  attain  a  mini-­‐ mum  of  8  of  the  11  criteria.    This   term  we  have  reviewed  several  (6)  of   them  in  our  newsletter  articles.    So  

you  should  be  well  on  your  way  to   becoming  one!  

submitted  their  commitment  forms,   that  is  2  criteria  out  of  the  way.  

This  month  the  focus  is  on  criteria   number  1:    Hold  a  current  IAAP  Certifi-­‐ cation.    

So  take  a  few  minutes  and  sign  your   ĐŽŵŵŝƚŵĞŶƚĨŽƌŵŝĨLJŽƵŚĂǀĞŶ͛ƚ already  and  be  on  your  way  to  be-­‐ coming  a  Member  of  Excellence  for   the  2012-­‐2013.    You  can  email   ([email protected]),  fax   (757-­‐257-­‐6307),  mail  (2133  Carriage   Lane,  Norfolk,  VA  23518)  or  bring   your  form  to  the  meetings.    

So  if  you  are  a  CAP  or  CAP-­‐OM  and   LJŽƵƌĐĞƌƚŝĨŝĐĂƚŝŽŶŝƐĐƵƌƌĞŶƚ͕ƚŚĂƚ͛Ɛ it!    You  have  met  criteria  #1  for  every   year  you  remain  current.    The  Tidewa-­‐ ter  Chapter  currently  has  19  members   who  have  attained  IAAP  certifica-­‐ tion.      If  those  19  have  signed  and  

New  Member  Biography  

XW  

PMOY  Insights  

ANNIVERSARIES  

by  Neil  Morgan,  CAP   2012-­2013  PMOY  Chair  

Teresa  Inge,  CAP    ±  15  years   Debra  Brown  ±  7  years   Charlotte  Reese  ±  5  years   Kay  Crockett  ±  2  years   Cynthia  McEachin  ±  2  years   Nancy  Moore  ±  2  years   Tina  Gray  ±  1  year   Shawnte  Harvey  ±  1  year   Cheryl  Powell  ±  1  year   LaShonda  Salter  ±  1  year   Caitlyn  Worner  ±  1  year  

PMOY  Deadlines:The  PMOY  Application  Form  and  supporting   documentation  for  each  member  is  to  be  forwarded  to  the   PMOY  chair,  Neil  Morgan,  CAP,  via  e-­‐mail  or  postal  service  no   later  than  April  1,  2013.    Applications  will  include  anticipated   activities  for  the  months  after  the  deadline  date  through  June   30,  2013.    The  honor  system  is  used  for  these  time  periods;   accompanying  documentation  for  these  anticipated  activities   would  consist  of  copies  of  registration  forms,  etc.    This  will   give  the  division  chair  enough  time  to  tally  the  applications   and  designate  a  winner.    The  2012-­‐2013  chapter  PMOY  chair,   Neil  Morgan,  CAP,  will  review  these  applications  and  an-­‐ nounce  the  winner  of  the  2012-­‐2013  Tidewater  Chapter  PMOY   at  the  April  Chapter  Meeting  on  Tuesday,  April  16,  2013.    

RENEWALS   Charlotte  Reese   LaShonda  Salter  

NEW  MEMBER  WELCOME   Jeri  Baskerville   Sarah  Gay   Jennifer  Harris   Karen  Lester   Bobbi  Pominville   Renalda  Watkins   ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~  

To  update  the  chapter  roster  please   send  your  information  to  Nancy   Moore:   Email:    [email protected]   Telephone:      757-­576-­3405     S-­mail:  Nancy  Moore       1003  Colonial  Meadows  Way     Virginia    Beach,  VA  23454   Please  note  that  changes  sent  to   Nancy  will    update  the  chapter  roster   only.  To  make  changes  with  IAAP   Headquarters  please  log  on  to     www.iaap-­hq.org  and  update your   membership  profile.  

Karen  Lester   Karen  has  been  employed  at  ValueOptions  for  10  years   and  is  currently  the  Executive  Assistant  to  the  Presi-­‐ dent  &  CEO.    She  has  lived  in  Hampton  Roads  her  en-­‐ tire  life  which  is  very  uncommon  in  this  military  area.     In  August,  she  will  be  celebrating  30  years  of  marriage   to  her  husband,  Allen.    She  has  2  grandchildren  from   her  stepdaughter  &  son-­‐in-­‐law.    In  her  spare  time,   Karen  loves  cooking,  reading,  scrapbooking,  gardening   and  camping.  

Jennifer  Harris   Jennifer  works  as  the  Executive  Assistant  to  the  Chief   Financial  Officer  for  ValueOptions.    She  also  supports  2   SVP's  that  report  to  the  CFO.    She  has  been  with  Val-­‐ ueOptions  for  almost  2  years.    Jennifer  is  originally   from  Pennsylvania  and  moved  to  the  Tidewater  area  in   2004  when  she  was  transferred  from  Pittsburgh  while   working  as  the  Executive  Assistant  for  the  Mid-­‐Atlantic   Division  General  Manger  of  HSBC,  Consumer  Lending.     She  is  married  to  Tim  Harris  and  has  2  children,  Ryan   and  Emily.      Tim  is  the  General  Manager  for  HH  Gregg   in  Virginia  Beach,  Ryan  is  a  freshman  at  Longwood   University  and  Emily  is  a  freshman  at  Grassfield  High   School.    She  enjoys  reading  and  walking  on  a  regular   basis  and  she  likes  being  outside  sitting  by  the  pool   spending  time  with  her  family  and  friends.  

Welcome  to  the  Tidewater   Chapter  Karen  &  Jennifer!  

Keep  working  on  your  applications.  zKhKh>͙         Please  visit  the  VA-­‐WV  Division  website  for  the  complete   PMOY  supporting  documentation  list.  

7LSVIRU+DQGOLQJ9DOHQWLQH¶V'D\DWWKH2IILFH   by  Heather  Dugan,  Salary.com  contributing  writer  

IAAP  Acronyms   APD    

Administrative  Professionals  Day  

APW    

Administrative  Professionals  Week  

B&SR  

Bylaws  and  Standing  Rules  

CAP      

Certified  Administrative     Professional  

CEU    

Continuing  Education  Unit  

The  bottom  line  is  Cupid  would  never  make  it  past  security  for   a  reason.  Love  may  be  the  motto  for  February  in  the  card   aisle,  but  in  the  office  the  key  word  is  "discretion."  

CPS      

Certified  Professional  Secretary   (now  called  CAP  )  

Here's  a  list  of  helpful  tips  to  keep  in  mind  if  you're  thinking   about  merging  your  love  life  with  your  professional  life  this   Feb.  14.  

EFAM    

Education  Forum  and  Annual   Meeting  

EOTY  

Executive  of  the  Year  

IAAP      

International  Association  of     Administrative  Professionals    

IC    

Institute  for  Certification  

IDPC    

,QFRPLQJ'LYLVLRQ3UHVLGHQW¶V Conference  

OM      

Organizational  Management  (must   have  CAP  designation  before  taking   this  exam  (CAP-­OM)  

PA  

Parliamentary  Advisor  

PDS  

Professional  Development  Seminar  

PEC  

Professional  Education  Conference  

Valentine's  Day  is  a  Double-­‐Edged  Sword     Valentine's  Day.  Perhaps  no  other  holiday  evokes  stronger   feelings  from  both  the  lovesick  and  those  entirely  sick  of  love.   Sure  the  celebration  of  holidays  at  the  office  can  be  fun.  After   all,  you're  still  sporting  that  certificate  for  "Best  Costume"  at   Halloween.  But  if  management  wanted  you  to  make  a  big  deal   about  Valentine's  Day,  they'd  have  handed  out  a  list  of  names   and  asked  you  to  decorate  a  card  box  for  your  desk  just  like  in   the  fourth  grade.  

Tone  Down  the  Flower  Power     Oh  my  gosh!  He  sent  you  flowers!   After  reception  calls  you  down  to  pick  up  your  two  dozen   roses  and  you've  dashed  through  the  office  to  fill  that  enor-­‐ mous  vase  with  water,  you'll  walk  back  to  your  desk  via  an-­‐ other  route  to  brighten  the  day  of  even  more  officemates   with  your  burgeoning  bouquet.  You  chuckle  while  straining  to   see  where  you  are  going  around  those  big  blooms,  and  be-­‐ nevolently  toss  tissues  toward  the  sniffles  you  hear  in  your   wake.  

Yes,  we  know  you  never  would.  This  is  for  that  prankster  over   in  marketing  who  defines  "inappropriate"  with  a  question   mark.  Sure,  it  might  seem  fitting  to  leave  GET  REAL  on  the   sales  manager's  mouse  pad.  Or  SO  FINE  on  the  desktop  of   your  secret  crush.  But  don't.   If  secret  messages  are  that  appealing,  spend  some  time  deci-­‐ phering  the  raised  eyebrows  you'd  get  if  you  actually  did   something  so  foolish.  

Psssst.  Being  officially  dubbed  "Valentine  Worthy"  is  nice,  but   has  no  bearing  on  your  performance  review.  Be  sensitive  to   Don't  Ruin  Valentine's  Day  For  Everyone  Else  Just  Because   others  who  may  not  be  similarly  blessed,  and  don't  needlessly   You're  Bitter     showboat  while  others  are  drowning  in  romantic  turmoil.   No  one  likes  the  wet  blanket.   Smiling  is  fine,  but  please  refrain  from  cartwheels.   So  even  if  you're  single,  try  not  to  be  the  one  repeatedly  say-­‐ Today  is  Not  the  Day  to  Profess  Your  Love  for  a  Coworker     ing  Valentine's  Day  is  just  a  commercial  holiday.  Or  the  one   A  quick  peek  at  the  box  office  charts  or  TV  shows  proves   who  sighs  heavily  every  time  a  Valentine's  Day  dinner  date  is   nothing  pulls  in  the  crowds  like  a  good  drama.   mentioned.  Yes,  this  is  the  one  day  it  definitely  stinks  to  be   But  for  every  Jim  and  Pam  in  The  Office,  just  remember  there   single.  But  it's  one  day,  and  your  favorite  program  is  on  to-­‐ are  10  Michael  &  Jan  fiascos  that  leave  a  trail  of  destruction  in   night  anyway.  Don't  get  saddled  with  a  bitter  reputation  over   one  day.  Pretend  it  doesn't  matter,  because  it  doesn't.   their  wake.  So,  even  if  you're  convinced  the  redhead  in  ac-­‐ counting  is  your  soulmate,  don't  go  all  Hollywood  in  the  of-­‐ fice.  You  don't  have  complete  control  of  this  script  and  plot   twists  happen.  Wisdom  dictates  not  creating  that  sort  of   memorable  moment  at  the  job  that's  your  home  away  from   home.   Don't  be  the  drama.  Let  your  co-­‐workers  pay  full  price  at  the   multiplex.     Don't  End  Up  Humiliating  Your  Valentine     Let's  talk  about  Valentine's  Day  gifts  from  the  sending  party's   side.   You  may  want  to  impress  your  significant  other,  but  please  be   aware  of  your  beloved's  office  environment.  Yes,  the  two  of   you  share  a  unique  love  of  barbershop  quartets,  but  sending  a   serenade  into  a  "silence  is  golden"  atmosphere  isn't  going  to   win  you  points.  Similarly,  that  six-­‐foot  floating  heart  might  not   fit  the  steady  image  your  executive-­‐in-­‐training  is  working  to   cultivate.  Send  it  to  the  home  address  instead.   Don't  have  that?  Um...dating  one  of  your  imaginary  friends   again?   No  Candy  Hearts.  We  Mean  It!     hƐĞLJŽƵƌǁŽƌĚƐ͘ŽŶ͛ƚĐŽŵŵƵŶŝĐĂƚĞǁŝƚŚĐĂŶĚLJŚĞĂƌƚƐ͘  

You're  cool,  have  a  great  job  and  tomorrow  all  that  great   chocolate  will  be  half  price.  

PMOY   Professional  Member  of  the  Year  

Plan  Ahead.  Not  at  Work    

R&E      

Research  and  Educational     Foundation  

^ƉĞĞĚĚŝĂůŝŶŐŝƐŶŽƚŐŽŝŶŐƚŽƐĂǀĞLJŽƵŝĨLJŽƵĚŝĚŶ͛ƚŵĂŬĞƚŚŽƐĞ Valentine's  Day  dinner  reservations  last  week.  So  let  it  go.  The   same  goes  for  the  the  last  minute  ordering  of  bouquets,   chocolates  or  spa  moments.  Breathe  in.  Breathe  out.  

RTF    

Retirement  Trust  Foundation  

Panic  is  unprofessional  and  could  lead  to  questions  regarding   your  preparedness  for  work  responsibilities   which...ahem...this  is  company  time  now  anyway,  is  it  not?  

RTFC     Retirement  Trust  Foundation       Committee   SED    

Southeast  District  

Save  the  Day  Hint:  grab  a  blanket,  spread  it  out  on  the  floor   with  a  bottle  of  wine  and  some  take-­‐out  anything  and  call  it  a   picnic.  She'll  think  you're  creative  and  romantic.  You're  wel-­‐ come.  

TA  

Technology  Administration    

Cut  the  Cute    

IAAP  Mission  Statement  

Resist  the  urge  to  revisit  childhood  with  a  mass  delivery  of   cute  valentines  or  red  lollipops.  Some  in  your  office  are  count-­‐ ing  down  the  minutes  until  February  15th  and  won't  appreci-­‐ ate  the  reminder.  The  rest  have  dinner  reservations     continued  on  page    4  

Enhancing  the  success  of  career-­minded   Administrative  Professionals  by  providing   opportunities  for  growth  through  education,   community  building,  and  leadership  devel-­ opment.  

Eye  on  Membership   Community  Service   Deborah  E.  Mapp,  CAP-­‐OM   OPERATION  CARED  4   Please  bring  your  Operation  Cared  4  donations   to  the  February  meeting.    Click  HERE  for  a   complete  list  of  needed,  most  requested,  and   prohibited  items.  

Target  These  Dates   2013   Feb    19th  -­  Chapter  Community   Night  Meeting,    Virginia  Beach   Convention  Center,  hosting   member,    Brande  Rhumpf  

Sunshine  Fund     Carleen  Muncy,  BA,  CAP   The  Sunshine  Fund  has  a  balance  of  $46.05.  An   encouragement  note  was  sent  to  Amy  Braziel   ĚƵĞƚŽĨĂƚŚĞƌ͛ƐŚŽƐƉŝƚĂůŝnjĂƚŝŽŶ͘WůĞĂƐĞŬĞĞƉŚĞƌ and  her  family  in  your  thoughts  and  prayers.   We  have  enough  cards  to  finish  out  the  year.   Thank  you  to  all  that  have  donated  to  keep  the   Sunshine  Fund  functioning.  

Mar  15-­16th  -­  )XWXUH¶V&RQIHU ence  

Certification    

Mar  17-­20th    -­  TEC  13  

The  deadline  for  application  submissions  to   take  the  May  4th  CAP/OM  exams  is  February   15th.  Good  luck  and  happy  studying.    

Mar  19th  -­  Chapter  Meeting   Apr  6th  -­  IAAP  Leaders  Actively   Networking  (LAN)  Conference,   Charleston,  WV   Apr    16th  -­  Chapter  Meeting,   PMOY  announced   Apr  21-­27th  -­  Admin  Profession-­ als  Week   May  TBD  -­  Spring  Fling   May  21st  -­  Chapter  Meeting   Jun  18th    -­  Chapter  Meeting   Jun    28-­30th  -­    VA-­WV  Annual   'LYLVLRQ0HHWLQJ³%HWKH2QHWR 5HDFKWKH6WDUV´KRVWHGE\ Colonial  Chapter  @  Crowne   Plaza  Fort  Magruder.   Jul  28-­31  -­  EFAM,  Anaheim,  CA  

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Carleen  Muncy,  BA,  CAP  

The  Board  is  dedicated  to  providing  program-­‐ ming  to  assist  those  needing  recertification   points.  If  you  have  any  ideas  for  technical   training  and  can  lead  the  chapter  in  acquiring   that  type  of  knowledge,  please  let  us  know.  

Ways  &  Means     Sandee  Huff   &ĞďƌƵĂƌLJ͛ƐŵĞĞƚŝŶŐŝƐŽƵƌĂŶŶƵĂůŽŵŵƵŶŝƚLJ Night.  This  year  we  are  hosted  by  Brande   Rhumpf  at  the  Virginia  Beach  Convention   Center.  W&M  will  not  feature  a  vendor  at  this   meeting.    In  March,  Amy  Braziel,  our  very  own   Mary  Kay  independent  beauty  consultant  will   be  our  spotlight  vendor.    We  still  have  a  few   ŵŽŶƚŚ͛ƐůĞĨƚŝĨLJŽƵ͛ĚůŝŬĞƚŽ;ŽƌŬŶŽǁŽĨƐŽŵĞͲ one  that  would)  be  a  vendor  at  one  our  meet-­‐ ings.  For  more  information  contact  me  @   [email protected].     We  are  still  seeking  an  affordable  venue  for   the  Spring  Fling.  The  3rd  or  4th  Saturday  in   April  are  the  targeted  dates.  Please  contact   Susan  (757-­‐377-­‐8727)  or  Lisa  (757-­‐620-­‐4227)   Turner  with  any  location  suggestions.  

Have  a  special  night  planned?  Well,  bully  for   you.  Er...sorry.  Well  isn't  that  nice!   Here's  a  tip  worth  its  weight  in  14  carat  heart -­‐shaped  gold:  keep  those  Valentine's  Day   details  to  yourself  and  your  very  best  office   buddies.  Your  hopes,  your  dreams?  Keep   them  tethered  to  financial  targets,  sales  goals   and  marketing  strategies  when  in  the  office.   No  one  needs  to  know  you're  hoping  for  a   proposal  or  ready  to  drop  to  one  knee.  In-­‐ stead,  smile  discreetly  and  say  that  you  "have   plans."  That's  enough.  

Don't  Enable  the  Despondent     It's  inevitable.  Holidays  are  prime  break-­‐ up  times.  If  it  didn't  happen  over  New   Year's,  it's  bound  to  sideswipe  somebody   pre-­‐Valentine's  Day.     There  are  stages.  First  comes  sobbing  in  a   bathroom  stall.  Hand  over  tissues  and   light  condolences  before  heading  back  to   your  desk.  Stage  2  could  include  anger   and/or  regret.  At  this  point,  be  thankful   Cupid  is  not  in  the  building  with  a  ready   stash  of  arrows.  Deflect,  encourage  and,   again,  head  back  to  your  desk.   Do  not  enable  drama.  Present  the  bigger   picture.  Show  your  co-­‐worker  his  or  her   place  within  it.  Stage  3,  acceptance,  will   surely  follow.   We've  Told  You  What  Not  to  Do,  Here   Are  the  Simple  Dos     It's  simple  really.  Less  is  more.   Consider  Valentine's  Day  at  the  office  to   be  of  the  same  significance  as  the  outside   weather  is  to  your  climate  controlled   comfort.  General  goodwill  is  fine.  Specific   warm  feelings  are  not.   DO  send  professional  compliments  (Nice   job  on  leading  the  meeting!  Your  brain-­‐ power  was  invaluable).  DO  compliment   the  bounties  of  others  (Um...nice  stuffed   bear).  DO  keep  in  mind  there  are  364   other  days  in  this  year.   This  is  really  one  of  the  easier  holidays  to   navigate  professionally.  Best  advice?   Ignore  it  until  5  p.m.  

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Who is this cartoon character and when did he first appear in print? The  first  respondent  with  the  correct  answer   wins  a  prize.  *Prize  winner  will  be  announced/ awarded  at  the  February  chapter  meeting.   Submit  your  answer  to:

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Tidewater  Times      February  2013  

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Edito r   Sandee  Huff   Chesapeake,  VA   757.222.6041  ph      

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